Is it normal that i cant keep my temper when i am angry?

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Hi there, I am 28 years guy and my wife is of same age. We are working couple. We are just married after being a relationship for five years. We both really love each other. But the problem is we both are ill-tempered. I am probably more than her. I can not keep my cool when I get angry with her. I am sort of cranky in nature. Sometime, I show my frustration of out side on her. I simply can not behave properly if I am angry. I get irritated if something does not go as per my wish.I realize the thing later on, when I come down. And sometime I apologize some time not, even I know this is my mistake. If she fights back, it simply adds insult to injury and it irritates me more.any suggestion?

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  • Dad
    9 years ago

    Anger management perhaps?

    Anger IS something you can learn to control.
    Usually what you say to a child is go outside and hit a tree, or count to ten. Maybe start there and improve.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    As somebody on his third marriage, I have one thing to offer. Though my marriages did not end because of problems with the marriage, I did notice that the most damaging thing to the relationships was getting upset about the little things.
    We all have things we like just so; done as we wish. But none of them are worth damaging your relationship by fighting about them. If there is something your spouse does that drives you a little bit crazy, then tell her in a calm, rational manner. If she can't bring herself to stop, so what? Would you rather she leave, live alone or go through all the shit of meeting and dating another woman, because that is exactly what's going to happen if you pick fights about the trivial things.
    Generally your partner will try her best to comply and possibly ask you refrain from doing something she doesn't like in return.
    We all learn very early in life how to push our loved one's buttons. Kids can anger their parents with just a look, and parents can do the same to their kids with only one word.
    Being an adult is about self control and NOT allowing ourselves to have that hissy fit or temper tantrum so common with young children.
    Good luck.

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  • blackeyes43
    7 years ago

    Being angry and making it go away isn't easy guys. I have anger issues and even though I try take my breath in and all I'm unable to control the rage in me. The sad part is that my anger cools of almost immediately and I start to regret of being angry at a loved one. At times its too late to apologize. So all I have to say is being angry isn't easy but whenever I'm angry my boyfriend can always cool me down. He is the sort that never gets angry n I love him to bits but anyway that's not the point what I meant is have a friend who won't get angry go and talk to him for a while or just ask your wife...... :)

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  • Terence_the_viking
    9 years ago

    Neither can Goku and he's a super hero.

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  • stankpussy
    9 years ago

    next time you get mad at your wife just jam your thumb up her ass no lube

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    It's pretty shitty when a person can dish it out but, can't take it. You take your frustrations out on another person, and then when that person stands up to you you get pissed off that's very hypocritical.

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