Is it normal that i cant be friends with her coz i love her

I love this girl ..she was my classmate we r still good friends but were "friends'
i have treid a lot to prove her that i really LOVE her.. but she wants me to be her friend .but truth is i cant ...i have tried a lot but i just cant .......plz guys n girls help me out please

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  • Shackleford96

    My best advice for you is to "break up" with her and go your separate ways. Even move if you have to. I did. She might be just using you, whether she knows it or not. I had a similar situation to yours. It hurts to be around someone that you have unrequited feelings for... You could even end up hating her if the situation continues.

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  • :<TayTay>:

    :( it's okay. If you love her you'll let her go. Someday she gone wish she didn't leave you.

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  • 343Boy

    Just go right ahead and tell her you can't be friends anymore because of your feelings.

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  • stonecutters93

    I agree with mumbum and tarkio, stay friends but keep some distance. Don't cut contact completely but you need to go out, have fun and meet some new people. It's the best way to help take your mind off of her, and you never know what you could find! Hope everything works out for you.

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  • Tarkio

    Yes distance yourself. Get together with someone that you know she does not like, and then do not talk to her about it.
    Be very visible with other female interests (facebook photos, parties). Who knows- you may discover that you like one of the new interests!
    You can still remain her friend, but don't be her confident. Be light- have fun with her when you see her- but show her you are having fun with other girls too, especially someone she does not like or know.
    Re-live the magic from the beginning! Have fun with her. She may see you in a new light.
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  • mumbum

    Heartbreaking.. I reckon stay friends, but keep some distance. Peruse other girls and show her that you are having a great time without her, and she just MAY Start to notice you more.. Good luck

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  • borninrut

    In my opinion, (& this is coming from a girl) shes not interested. If you can't stand being just a "friend" anymore, i'd say call it quits and get over her. Truth hurts, but that's just how things end up sometimes.

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    • 53739

      True

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