Is it normal that i can't picture myself being intimate with someone

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I see couples all around, holding hands, kissing, hugging etc.. I never been in a relationship like that. I cant picture myself being that intimate with someone. first i'm a private person, second i lack confidence and third i'm just awkward and i'm afraid of making someone uncomfortable, i don't ever want to make someone feel that way.. its such a foreign concept to me. i barely hug my friends or my own family. Even though its something that i want to have one day.. but i know it wont happen for me, i know i'm ugly, its just a matter of fact and i've accepted this, not being negative. a guy can dream though. Does anyone feel the same?

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  • dillo
    5 years ago

    Me neither but i'm not ugly just very uncomfortable being around most people

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  • Biptetk
    5 years ago

    You lack confidence my friend. You must work on yourself before you can work on a relationship that involves two people.

    Also, it's not about how you look; it's about how your perceive yourself. My suggestion is to start small. Engage other people in some social event. What's your interests? Find a venue that encourage your interest. There will be other people there.

    Don't go looking for love. Go looking to interact with other people; make friends. This will build some confidence. As your confidence grow you can reach out for a relationship.

    Do not rush things! Allow things to grow naturally. You're important. You're somebody. There's people in this world that could use your help in dealing with what your dealing with. Concentrate on other people and not focus on yourself unduly. Everyone on this planet is one way or another looking for validation from someone. Be that validation for others. You never know what friendships can grow.

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    • amg1028
      5 years ago

      Thank you! What you said really put things into perspective.

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  • Miss_Aquarius
    5 years ago

    Is it that you don't want a relationship like that or just that you have never had one so you can't picture it. Both are completely normal and you shouldn't need to worry about it. You might be amazed, you might find a gorgeous girl that loves you and you have a great relationship with. I don't feel the same as I have been in relationships like that and like it but I have a friend that is a bit like that and think its normal.

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    Every pot has a lid.

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