Is it normal that i can't get off?

When ever I get horny and I try to masterbate I just can't seem to get off. I don't have a vibe or any toys so I solely use my fingers though I can't feel much happening on the inside. If I try to stimulate myself on the outside I just get the urge to pee. A few times in the shower I've kept going to see what would happen and have eventuality pee'd. I'm guessing I can't find my clit seeing as I never even feel enough pleasure to moan let alone orgasm. I would really like to reach orgasm, especially seeing as I've never had sex before and would love to know what it feels like.

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75% Normal
Based on 4 votes (3 yes)
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  • UnabashedUser

    the urge to pee in women is usually means your gonna cum. Keep fingering and let it flow. You'll probably be a squirter and thats better than erotic. Men love that. As for the lesbian, get yourself some quality cunnilingus. Guaranteed you'll go off in her mouth and let it squirt let it squirt

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  • TerryVie

    1.: check for clitoris on wikipedia to make sure you are looking in the right spot.
    2.: try differing styles of stimulation on this location.
    3.: try using your showerhead, if it has a massage-setting.
    4.: try using your electric toothbrush(handle-side).
    5.: try again in a year.
    repeat until success.

    Alternatively: Let someone else show you. Your friendly neighbourhood lesbian will gladly help.

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