Is it normal that i can't get a girlfriend?

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so i am friends with a few girls and we are good friends and we talk about whatever, and i am attracted to all of them but i never get the sense that any of them like me the way i like them, you know? so right now i'm just friends with a couple girls but i feel like if i try to show my feelings more it will only push them away and they won't even want to talk to me anymore.

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Based on 28 votes (24 yes)
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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    Flirt with them, see if they flirt back.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      idk it feels awkward

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    8 years ago

    Not going to happen you've already been friendzoned. Don't talk to pussy your not fucking.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      That's stupid. I think guys and girls can and should be able to talk to each other without sex crossing their minds. Not everyone is so perverted you know.

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      • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
        8 years ago

        And thats why your going to make love to your hand tonight.

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  • mebaby
    8 years ago

    Looks up the definition of Friendzone and then think about your past interaction with these girls that got you trown in there so you wont have a repeat of it next time.

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  • JakeS
    8 years ago

    Just believe in yourself dude, and the sky is the limit.

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  • HardlyLurking
    8 years ago

    Become best friends with one of them and use her to find out if any of the other girls want a piece of that insecure little ass of yours.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Most girls are just like guys and want a relationship every bit as much. There is no need to tip toe around if you like someone and want a deeper relationship.
    It sounds like you are trying to preserve these friendships in the hopes that one day one of these girls will profess her undying love for you. It ain't going to happen.
    Make your move and if they freak, oh well, move on.

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    • sunshinemoonlight
      7 years ago

      We all miss you gypsy

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      It's much harder for most guys to get a girlfriend than it is for most girls to get a boyfriend. Because society says that guys should initiate, the obligation is on guys to put themselves out there at the risk of rejection and possible humiliation, while all girls have to do is look pretty. Also, girls have makeup and a wide variety of self-enhancement techniques including better fashion that helps them attract guys who are naturally visually oriented.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I don't think so, I mean most girls can get a boyfriend pretty easily, but it's harder for most guys to get a girlfriend. Because society says that guys should initiate, the obligation is on guys to put themselves out there and face the risk of rejection and possible humiliation while all girls have to do is look pretty and respond however they please without considering the guy's feelings. It's truly one-sided. Girls also have the option of makeup and other self-enhancement techniques (including much wider variety of fashion and accessories) in order to boost their visual appeal to guys, who are naturally visually oriented. Guys are constantly trying to hit on girls but the reverse isn't true.

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