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I can't seem to find a girl that likes me, I'm afraid that no girl is ever going to love me and that I'm gonna be alone forever.
you definitely need to have confidence and also are you even trying? do you put yourself out there and try and spark up conversations with women? It's like they say , practice makes perfect .. the more you engage with females the more you know how to initiate conversation and keep it flowing . You know what's appropriate and what should be left for following dates .. If you do this more and more the chances of meeting someone will increase but if you are not trying to meet women , they more than likely wont just flock to you for no apparent reason! get out there and meet people! just have friendly , casual conversations and when it feels right , ask for a date .. something light , a coffee , a lunch or a walk for ice cream sometime to talk and know each other . When you have the cell phone number you can start off with small talk throughout the day .. let it flow naturally . I wouldn't be too concerned , just put yourself out there more or try dating sites even to start but do not lose touch with real life interactions :D
I talk to girls around my school a bit but I always have a feeling that I'm annoying them or that I'm boring to them, I don't know maybe I'm too..boring?
just keep interacting with them , show your confidence and be humble , genuine and kind hearted ... this is admirable by any girl as a lot of guys don't know how to treat girls . You don't need to worry .. those "cool guys" or jerk offs that seem to get the girl wont last long in the adult world .. women want a real lover who can take care of them emotionally and be honest and sincere . If you seem nervous or lack confidence it might make things awkward so just be confident and take leaps .. a lot of guys lack confidence .. even the so called studs . The guy who takes action and gives the appropriate attention will stand out more . I wouldn't be nervous because you have to have failed attempts to succeed and as long as you are casual and cool about them .. it's all good .
Perfectly normal, it's happens for some early later for others. Don't worry to much about that because it does start to weigh heavily on you quality of life. The girl of your dreams will come when your not even looking for it. That's how it usually happens.
there's nothing wrong with being alone forever, dating (and marriage and kids) is all a giant pain and waste of time and money and heartache. and when you're attached to someone you don't have the freedom to fantasize about being with someone else without feeling weird about it. just realize that the feelings you get from being in love and a relationship is the same feelings you can get by watching some good quality adult videos. love is just chemicals in your brain, it's not real.
I'm a girl, and I can tell you that many girls like a guy and are scared to tell them. There's actually a few guys that I like, and I can't seem to build up the confidence to tell them. I'm sure there are a lot of girls who like you, but they are too nervous to admit it. I've had guys who I like come up to me and say, "You know, you're really beautiful. I've seen you looking at me a lot. Do you like me?" Even though I like them, in that moment, I'm too scared to say anything so I just say,"Um... why would you think that?" and walk away. Many girls are too afraid that they will get turned down to say anything. The ideal image of what girls look for in a guy is handsome, well-dressed, athletic, and most of all, OUTGOING! Then are lots of guys who I know that have the whole "package" but are not outgoing. Even if you aren't naturally, try to be outgoing. It will help a lot! Ask around, and I'm sure you'll find someone! I hope this helps you!
~Frostire~
You sound desperate. And most women can smell it from a mile away. If u aren't genuine in your compliments and words they'll usually know it and recognize it as a line from a desperate loser. You need to be comfortable in being alone to build the confidence to attract a woman. If you are scrambling and worrying about being alone forever, they're gonna know. Don't ask me how. I'm pretty sure that's what Victoria's secret is lol
Keep your chin up. There is someone out there for you. I am in agreement with everyone on the confidence.