Is it normal that i can't find a guy that loves me and my kid

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I was a ho and into some bad stuff when I was a younger.But I found the Lord and have my own beauty shop and did a 180 in life. My ten year old son is my everything, we have a great time together. I wish I could find someone to be a dad to him, that I could spoil. His real dad is serving life in prison and does not want to see him. I still look fine and do up my nails real nice and I can cook. I don't know what I am doing wrong.I don't bring them home at all because I don't want to get his hopes up.Can't seem to find any guys my age that are good for us. All the men that go to my church are weird, super religious or are old enough to be my granddad.Maybe I am too picky or my sense of humour freaks them out. My moms had tons of nasty ass bf when I was a kid and don't want my son growing up like that.

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  • TheMightyOz
    8 years ago

    You sound like a good woman. Hang in there.

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  • Steve2
    8 years ago

    This is why you never get involved with the filthy, disgusting, and inferior proles of our world (which is about 90% of humanity). It will screw up both your life and your child's life. Please don't let your child see your criminal husband, ever.

    Find a decent man, not at a bar, church or back alley. It might take a while, but having a supporting father figure can be instrumental in raising a boy well, after exposing him your disgusting husband.

    Alternatively, if you can afford it, be single. Or find a strange old man at the church, 42 years your senior, and sail the world with him, while sending your son to French boarding school.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Look for a guy who's a single dad who can understand you and your struggle, but for goodness sake take your time. You don't need to tell him everything right from the start. Hang in there, you sound like a loving mother and I wish you well.

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  • Crusades||
    8 years ago

    What was your husband jailed for?

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    • Steve2
      8 years ago

      He probably farted in church.

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    • greenpinetree
      8 years ago

      my ex bf is in jail for using and selling drugs driving a stolen vehicle and killing 2 cops.I had just had the baby when he did all this ;(

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      • Steve2
        8 years ago

        Has he dropped the soap yet?

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  • CDmale4fem
    8 years ago

    Would you be ok with a guy that is good to you even if he tells you hes a crossdresser ?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Wow, imagine that! "All the men that go to my church are weird [and] super religious...."
    Seriously, I feel for you though. As a guy who had already raised a couple of kids, I wasn't interested in another family once I was single again. It really didn't matter how cool the gal was, it was just more than I was willing to take on.
    However, there must be guys out there who want a family or are in the same position you are in; single parents. Perhaps you need to meet new people outside the norm for you.
    Think of activities you enjoy or are interested in learning, especially ones your boy can join in.
    Mountain biking, horse riding, canoeing, sailing, bird watching, whatever the two of you could enjoy together. Then go find a club where others who enjoy those activities get together, perhaps with their kids, too.
    Bars and clubs are a waste of your time if you are looking for a serious relationship, IMO.
    Good luck.

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  • Steven Glansberg
    8 years ago

    Simple. Its not what youre DOING wong. its what you DID wrong and now youre paying the price. Theres a reason everyone knows its a bad idea to do what you did-- because there are bad consequences. If there were no bad consequences then even more ppl would do what you did.

    Nothing you can do but reflect on your mistakes when you were younger. Very big mistakes.

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  • CDmale4fem
    8 years ago

    Im curious, what is "your age" group range ?

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