Is it normal that i can make myself cum but nobody else can

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I have perfected how to bring myself to orgasm and I know exactly what I'm into in terms of porn and things but whether I sleep with random guys/girls or people I'm really into, I can't seem to enjoy anything that they do? Is this because of the people I'm choosing? Or could this be an underlying issue with myself? I did wonder if maybe I simply don't feel confident with other people but this doesn't seem like a good enough reason..

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  • Kallari
    6 years ago

    I have the same issues, I find it difficult to orgasm anyway but with another person it's impossible.

    It's only been a few months ago that someone finally managed it, they were my partner and I felt comfortable with them, plus I was sober.

    I think there's a few factors, but I'm convinced most of it is in our heads.

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  • maryjane123
    6 years ago

    Seems like its about you tbh chick. It's great you've got to know your body but you clearly want to share it with someone. Work on your confidence, and I promise the healthy sex life and the relationships come along with it.

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  • IcecreamDogs
    6 years ago

    I can't help myself to cum around people either, it makes me too uncomfortable. Maybe it's out of respect?

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  • realservitude
    6 years ago

    I was like that too for a while. I just had my masturbation technique down perfectly. Since going without masturbation is kind of unrealistic, I just changed my technique.

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  • Ratmanforelife
    6 years ago

    Sounds like you are too hung up on yourself. Give your a hand a night off once and a while. OK?

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