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For quite a while now iv struggled with having a best friend. When i start to make one i feel like i can be obsessive, like texting to much wanting to hang out to much and i worry they get annoyed of me. Could i be obsessive or is that just what best friends do and i just haven't found a true best friend.
Let me tell you a little about my friend. He'd call, when I answer. He wouldn't say Hey or Hello or anything of that sort, just one question. "Food?" Exactly like that. If I say Yes, he says "Bye." If I hadn't, then we'd think of a place to go.
My friends know, I hate having them in front of my face all the time. And I know they wouldn't want to see my face all the time. Even though we don't live our lives together, but we are tight as a whatever you think is tightest in the world.
Anyways, stay classy.
I think you're worrying too much. Maybe next time you text one of your friends, tell him/her "I don't mean to bother you if you're busy, get back to me whenever you're free." That makes you sound less desperate.
all friendships are unique, you aren't doing anything wrong. it's about compatiblity, we're all different
thats what can be hard taking it slow. Theres time s when I will think twice about texting them and stuff.