Is it normal that i both want and don't want to have sex/lose my virginity?

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I've been in a relationship with a really great guy for about 3 months now, but we still haven't gone all the way. When i'm alone, I have usual sexual desires like any normal person. I enjoy fooling around a bit with my boyfriend, but when it comes down to it i lose interest and am almost too grossed out to want to go further. My boyfriend is great, cute, funny, nice, so is there just something wrong with me? Or is it normal for virgins to feel like this?

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Based on 11 votes (10 yes)
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  • pixie_dust
    11 years ago

    Do not rush into it! It has profound affect on girls almost always. You contemplate the pleasure but u dont realize how itt will mess with your heart. Especially if u dont work out (which although u may be sooo sure he's 'the one', statistics r not in ur favor that u and him will be together forever. In that case and at ur age (im guessing high schoolish) dealing with that is tougher than u may think.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Losing your virginity is a big deal. You only ever do it once. And it's not something that can ever be undone. Perhaps you don't feel you are yet ready. Although it's really difficult to know exactly when we are ready. The only person who can answer this question, however difficult it may be, is you.

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