Is it normal that i believe parenting isn't as good as it's made out to be?

When most people become parents, they act as if it's the "greatest" thing they ever did in life and that "they never knew true love or understood how to be selfless" until they done bred. Um, no, it's not. One, it's a life-long responsibility, not a job and Two, not everyone is cut out for it. Then they act as if it's the Most Important and Highest Job in the World and that "They never had meaning or felt fulfilled in life until they sluiced". Excuse me, but if you were unfulfilled before kids and needed them to give your life purpose/importance then you never had a life to begin with and two, there are jobs out there that are FAR more important and special than raising Mini-Mes and Adopted-Sprogs. Some people should never have children and most parents should never have had kids. My own mother told me that if she could do it over, she wouldn't have had children (And yes, she does love me and my siblings and I admire her honesty). You see, she too fell to the lies that "You're not a real adult/woman until you have kids" and that "Kids are little miracles". No, kids are not miracles as every mammal/creature does it and 3-4 are born every second for every few that die. A Miracle is actually a WONDERFUL thing that saves the lives of many after suffering for so long OR saving an endangered/critically endangered species. Hell, BRINGING THE DEAD BACK TO LIFE would be a true miracle. Also, once you reach a certain age, you ARE an Adult and if you're born with a vagina, you ARE a woman. Parenting isn't as great or oh-so-rewarding as most people make out. "Oh, Kids are hard work but It's SOOOOOOOOOOOO WOOOOOORRRRRTTTTHHHH IIIIIIITTTTT!" Yeah, I have 3 words for that: Bull. Fucking. Shit. From what I have observed and still see, Having or Adopting Kids and Parenting them is 80-90% Shit and 10-20% Worthwhile (If it's even that). To me, any job that's 80% to 90% Garbage is NOT worth it and the reasons why people even have kids is due to their own selfish reasons and personal gain. Why can't parents just be more honest about having kids and tell people how hard and draining being a PAHRUNT really is and how you should think it over more than twice before you decide to do it? Oh that's right, because " PARENTING COULDN'T POSSIBLY BE BORING OR CRUDDY! IT'S ALL RAINBOWS AND KODAK MOMENTS! HUR-DUR-DERPY-DER!
EVERYONE LOOOOOOOOVES KIDS! HOW CAN ANYONE NOT LOVE OR THINK OF THE CHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIILLLLLLLLLLDDDDDRRRRRRRREEEEEEENNNNNNN?!" That's a lie that's been propagated too damn much and too damn long in our society. Another problem with our Pro-Natalist and Pro-Family society is that if you don't have kids, you "Must have such a empty, loveless life" and how "You're such a cold, selfish kid-hating person who eats babies for every meal". I'm sick and tired of these lies being spread. What's worse is that EVERY.FUCKING.LITTLE.GIRL. is RAISED TO GET MARRIED AND HAVE KIDS because after all, EVERY WOMAN LURVES AND WANTS KIDS! Again, bull-fucking-shit. Let girls grow up whatever the hell they want to as long as it won't harm them or another. In other words, STOP BRAINWASHING KIDS' HEADS TO WANT NOTHING MORE THAN A MAYUN/WIYIFE AND KYDS (I'm misspelling on purpose for emphasis). BY THE WAY SOCIETY, A FAMILY ISN'T LIMITED TO PARENTS AND KIDS OR A SINGLE PARENT AND KIDS. A family ARE THE PEOPLE ONE LOVES AND CARES ABOUT. ONE DOESN'T NEED TO GET MARRIED OR SPROG TO HAVE A FAMILY, YOU IMBECILES! You know what else grinds my gears, fellow IINers? The fact that BREEDERS ALWAYS GET TAX BREAKS/REDUCTIONS/KISS ASSING WHEN THE CHILDLESS/CHILDFREE DON'T. WHAT.THE.HELL? Where's THEIR TAXBREAKS? THEY'RE NOT THE ONES WHO ARE BREEDING MORE CONSUMERS AND CONTRIBUTING TO OVERPOPULATION. Let's not forget that it's the people WITHOUT CROTCHDROPPINGS THAT ARE THE ONES WHO CONTRIBUTE MUCH MORE TO SOCIETY AND PAY FOR THE FUCK TROPHIES OTHER PEOPLE HAVE. IT SUCKS HOW OUR WORLD WORKS. No hard working person who doesn't have kids should EVER pay for a Breeder's actions. If anyone needs to be rewarded, it's the people without kids but no. Our system has to be a MASSIVELY UNFAIR DICK TO EVERYONE WHO HASN'T MADE A MINI-ME. The government also gives a fat "F-U" to everyone who doesn't have Vagina Goblins and NEEDS ASSISTANCE. None of this is right, justifiable, or follows the US Constitution or any other thing that SHOULD guarantee our freedom and our rights as Human Beings. If Breeders get help, then so should the Childless/Childfree. Non of this favorite-picking Tomfoolery. "OH, BUT PARENTS NEED THE TAX BREAKS AND MONEY FOR THEIR BAAAAYYYBBBBEEEES!" Yeah, like a leech needs more blood when it's already bloated with it. FUCK PARENTS. Let them pay their own way in life and DON'T GIVE THEM ANY ASSISTANCE/REWARDS. Now, don't get me wrong: if HARDWORKING parents WHO ACTUALLY PARENT THEIR SPAWN PROPERLY lose their job and they have a hard time taking care of their families then sure, give them help OR get the family's families to take care of them themselves. Every government needs to be reformed. This shitty Governance and way of things has been going on for way too long. "OH, BUT MOMMIES, DADDIES, AND THEIR PWESHIOUSES ARE FAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRR MORE IMPOTANT THAN YOU NON-BREEDERS!" NO. NO. AND NO. No one's value in life should EVER be based on whether or not they have pushed out a loaf/got a gal pregnant. Everyone should be very important. No one should ever be more "Special" then another. Stop the world. I want to get off. I don't want to live on this planet anymore (But sadly I can't go now).

Rant Over. No, I'm not trolling and no, I'm not a Child Hater due to the way I feel. I'm just fucking sick of all the goddamn Child and Parent-Worshipping Bullshit and how those people who don't have kids and never intend on having them are always treated like garbage (In a word, 2nd Class Citizens).