Is it normal that i become evil?

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Is it normal that I become an evil bitch when I drink? It's not all the time, but about 3 times I've had way too many drinks and have turned into a completely different person. I am usually a sweetheart, I go above and beyond for my boyfriend, friends, and family, and I'm usually really sensitive.

Every time that I have freaked out it's been about things I've kept inside. For example, I had a really bad episode Saturday night and got super upset with my boyfriend for not buying my mom any flowers for Mother's Day. We have been together for less than a year, but I just found it to be rude. For every occasion I always send his family some sort of gift basket or just any little thing to show them I care. He didn't see anything wrong with it and his defense was that he thought you were only supposed to get your mother something on Mother'd Day. I have never dated anyone who thought like this, so to me I just thought he was being cheap or just didn't have any interest in making my mom feel appreciated (she does a lot for him). I screamed at him, I cried for like an hour straight, and I told him he sucked as a boyfriend. He was really sad after that and now I just feel horrible. Was I being insensitive? Would you stay with someone if they did that to you? I've been trying to make it up to him ever since.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I've never bought a gift or even sent a card to a girl friend's or wife's mom, on Mother's Day.
    On this one, I'm with him. It's a day to send your own mother something that says you love her and appreciate her.
    I know that wasn't really your question, sorry.

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  • dirtybirdy
    8 years ago

    First, that was bonkers of you to bug out like that over something that I see no problem with. He is not obligated to get your mom anything.

    Second, perhaps you just can't handle alcohol. Something else to consider is what you drink and when you drink it. I learned a long time ago that I should not go anywhere near hard liquor when I'm premenstrual. Recipe for an emotional disaster, it is.

    Pace yourself. There's no need to get hammered. Have water between drinks and eat some food. Think a bit more. Don't go apeshit and remember that not everyone thinks the same way you do.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    You are confused. You buy flowers for your mother. He buys flowers for his mother.

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  • handsignals
    8 years ago

    So now were supposed to buy every single fucking woman we know a fucking a present whose a Mother GET FUCKED.

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago

    That was really terrible of you. No, I would not stay with someone who did that to me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Evil is too strong a word. Insensitive? Sure. People are either too nice or too cunty when they're drunk. Don't worry, drunkness brings out the worst in people. :P

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    I think it is a normal reaction to have an issue with that. How you handled it was/is the issue. You were drinking so it makes sense that you were overly emotional. I am usually a happy go lucky drunk but every now and then this evil drunk comes out. I am like a raving lunatic. Having no reason or rationality. Apologize move forward and make compromises.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    oh well it's out there that's how you feel , if he stays i bet he gives flowers next time

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  • hermione
    8 years ago

    Alcohol brings out the truth, just think about that.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Don't drink \(._.)/

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Not evil but if that's how alcohol affects you maybe you should stop drinking it?

    I don't agree with you about the flowers; your mother isn't his mother & Mother's Day is for mothers, that's why it's called Mother's Day. Last week I saw advertising suggesting Mother's Day gift buying for wives & aunts and I think that's ridiculous and just designed to sell more & more stuff

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    He hasn't been with you for more than a year. Getting flowers for your mom wasn't on the table.

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    it's normal for the drinks to interfere with your judgement and add to your emotions . It's the fact that you don't address it before going out to drink the booze that's not as normal . I am not saying I am guilt free or you need to be crucified but from here on out , maybe try solving the problem , then having happy hour on a positive note :D

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