Iin, that i am turned on by making women feel good during sex?

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IIN, that during sex, I am turned on, not by how it feels, but instead by how I make the women feel during sex. I honestly really don't care too much how it feels for myself, but if she is getting all into it then I just end up blowing it right away.

Is there a reason for why I do this? Whether it relates to anxiety about performance and, if so, how can I overcome and fix this? Having a pre-mature ejaculation just because she is feeling good is a real embarrassment for me.

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Comments ( 16 )
  • knowledgebytes
    14 years ago

    And sex is the best when both people are enjoying turning the other on!!!!!

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  • arbiter
    14 years ago

    are you single and in my area? I'll show you how wonderfully normal you are.

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    • lynamph
      14 years ago

      Haha aw xD

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  • Johnnywker
    12 years ago

    OMG this is me too!!! I'm not alone !!!

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  • trav1085
    13 years ago

    Yay I feel the same way I really like making gf feel good way more than myself

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  • randyjackson
    13 years ago

    Very. I feel the same way

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  • kitten007
    14 years ago

    Extremely let's hook up sometime

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  • trashman
    14 years ago

    Same 4 me I say it's normal

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  • zii
    14 years ago

    normal.

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  • BOYracer88
    14 years ago

    girls love blokes that can please them the only thing they love more is a bloke that enjoys pleasing them good 4 u mate

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  • dinla
    14 years ago

    that's what being a lover is all about.. "unselfishness "

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  • zeplague
    14 years ago

    I have a similar situation, except the other way around. I can only get turned on if I know I am turning on my boyfriend, like nothing turns me on more than giving him head. Anyhoo, I think it relates to codependency in my case, and I'm not sure if your situation is exactly the same but just tell yourself that sex should be a shared thing, and you have every right to enjoy it just as much as she does not simply because she is enjoying it.

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  • Alaskaraven
    14 years ago

    Like live porn, watching someone else get so into it. Yes, normal. Also normal to be so into it, that we aren't really paying attention to you- just take turns at getting and giving to make it great for both, or make sure the preferences are OK w/ her..

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  • hotboxhero
    14 years ago

    Super normal!! and quite desirable I might ad. You are a passionate lover! and probably a pretty empathetic and well rounded person too. You care about people other then yourself!!

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  • shinno
    14 years ago

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    Yes that's pretty normal.

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  • cassie_ccc
    14 years ago

    No. Bitches ain't shit. It's all about you.

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