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I have not had sex in over ten years. I do Kegels, but haven't stretched. Tried to have sex with my new boyfriend and had to stop because it hurt too much. I can only get one finger in comfortably. How can I reverse this shrinkage? Dildos hurt as well.
Please ignore the immature responses, and give me your best advice. Thank you girls.
That sounds like vaginismus. That's a tough one, but it is reversible. It has to do a lot with phyical as well as mental and emotional readiness. Read up a bit on it on google and see if that sounds like you. There should be a list of treatments along with the symptoms. My suggestion is to figure out mentally what's messing you up. Maybe it's cause you think it will hurt, or maybe just the thought that you think you're tight cause you haven't had sex in a while? I would like to assure you that the vagina doesn't become a whole lot tighter just because you haven't had sex in a while. It should function as it used to with the right amount of arousal. I think foreplay would help your situation a lot
If a pussy works in a similar way to anal, then have him start small ( one finger) then work his way up ( finger by finger, until you can take the D)