Is it normal that i am straight but guys' body parts don't turn me on?

This is so crazy! I realized this recently. Im a straight girl. When I am making love,I love it when the guy gives me pleasure, I feel so turned on! and part of it is because I see my body parts and I can't imagine how much he is turned on w my boobs and everything. But when I see his parts, I don't get turned on! Lol, it is so crazy I just see it and Im like um okay which is probably why I don't give bjs and Ill give him a handjob but its nothing because Im not into it. I am more into him giving me pleasure. Another thing is ya I do get more turned on when I see an attractive girl and not like I want to do her but more in terms of wow I can't imagine her making love w a guy like it must be hot! It is well-known that the female is a million times more attractive than a male which could explain that it is normal if I get turned on by a girl. However, I like guys but I like guys giving me pleasure and I can't help but show off my body because its attractive since I am female. The real question here is if its normal if I am straight but I don't get turned on by guys' body parts?

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Based on 610 votes (417 yes)
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  • Tehboss

    you just love yourself way too much...

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  • JBN

    Actually looking at the female va jay jay, large ariolas, and flabby thighs to me is disgusting. An in shape man's chest, legs and butt is sooo hot. If your boyfriend is cute, send him my way. No reciprocation needed!

    BTW, please start using the term men, and not "guy" and "guys" for everything and everybody. It is over used and getting on my nerves. I think I will post that again.

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  • bleach_baby

    If you mean you don't get turned on by a guys dick, then yeah totally normal. However, if you don't get aroused by a hardbodied guy, that I can't understand.

    You don't sound bisexual to me though. It's quite normal for a girl to find other girls bodies attractive, and to gain sexual pleasure from being able to turn men on with their own bodies.

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  • Aleks85

    I personally think I'm a sexy piece of man meat so screw what you say.

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    • Alexandra101

      Ooh,come my way. I have no problems with a guys body .(;; LOL

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  • disthing

    "It is well-known that the female is a million times more attractive than a male"

    That's your opinion, not a universally accepted truth.

    Anyway if you are physically attracted to women and not men, but you are romantically attracted to men not women, perhaps you have a strange split. Some people find their mind and bodies don't match sexually. You emotionally respond to males, but sexually respond to females. That's one suggestion.

    Alternatively you may be bisexual and lean more towards the female than male, but have yet to find a female you are emotionally attached to beyond friendship.

    Basically nothing about your post suggests you are totally straight, but a lot suggests you are at least a bit gay. I feel sorry for your boyfriend; nobody likes to feel unattractive to their lover.

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    • shade_ilmaendu

      This makes a lot of sense, I'm the same way and always thought it was a bit of an abnormality. I'm attracted to both genders, but not physically attracted to women in the same way I am with men.

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  • chicken_wings

    I love you you love me homosexuality people say we're just friends but we're really lesbians

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    • BystanderZombies

      Is it weird that I read that like the Barney sone ? Or was that intended in this comment ? Lmao I felt so weird c:

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    • AgentHitGirl

      I instantly knew I was supposed to sing this and not say!And I also imagined Barney Stinson singing this!!! *brofist*

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  • Stazy1378

    Dicks are not a huge turn on to look at for most all of the women I know. They just look funny. It's a mans shoulders, chest, arms, back and muscular legs and tight ass that we all like. Many, MANY, women prefer to see a man in underwear as opposed to naked. I had this convo millions of times with gal pals over the years.

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    • short&sassy

      Agreed!!

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  • Kawaiikirin

    I don't get turned on by my boyfriends dick. If it's INSIDE ME, then yes I will be turned on. But if I'm just sucking it or something then I'm like 'eh' lol

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  • Devyn

    Enjoying sex with someone is different to being attracted to their gender. If you don't like men's bodies and you're not romantically attracted to them either, then you're lesbian or asexual. That doesn't mean you can't enjoy sex with men, the feeling of being touched in places and being penetrated is pleasurable whoever is doing it.

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    • I agree with the "whoever is doing it", I think that's the conclusion. I have a feeling if a girl gives me pleasure, it'll be just as good, if not, better.

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  • GreenSkyBlueGrass

    I think youre a little more bi then you think.

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  • Anime7

    I don't know if its normal or not, but understandable. From what I can surmise, it sounds like you admire the female body more than the male one. However, you enjoy the pleasure of that a male can provide for you. Personally, I find vaginas to be gross looking and I'm a male. And I'm aware that there are some women who find penises to be gross-looking as well. As long as your getting your rocks off, I'd say your fine.

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  • yelsew

    You don't sound straight. Maybe bisexual. But if you find women attractive sexually, that's obviously not straight.

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  • kellibean.no.1

    Normal. I was so sickened by penises when I first started dating & I loved womens bodies, but that all changes for some people after those parts have made you feel good enough times & you start to associate the sight of man parts with that HELL YEAH feeling!

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  • gracie_loves_ya

    Ehh I guess your normal but you should probably not post things like this if you don't want to be embarrassed. This one girl at my school did this exact same thing and my fried found out and she told everyone.

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  • hot_lesbian

    personally It sounds like your bi or lesbian. (your description totally turned me on haha) but there's nothing wrong with not being straight. I think its better being lesbian because guys are jerks and girls are way nicer.

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    • AgentHitGirl

      It turned me on a little too!But I'm bi not gay!I find it cool to be bisexual cuz you can go to women if you get bored of men, and you could go to men when you get bored of women!AND IT'S THE CIRCLE OF BIIIIIII....

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  • boii2323

    Not normal!

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  • RainbowShy

    I'm a virgin. I want to stay that way, unpenetrated by one of those things. I already accidentally broke my hymen with a tampon as it is, so it doesn't matter much. Anything getting inside there terrifies me, actually. I rarely use tampons. I don't penetrate myself when masturbating... I'm more afraid of getting pregnant than doing it, actually. Not being a mother, just... It growing inside me and being there for 9 months, that thing inside that thing that shot inside my thing, and eventually I have to squeeze it out of there, it screaming, and crying, and kicking. I'd be screaming, crying, and kicking, too, having to force it's giant head out! I'd murder the guy who knocked me up for making me have to go through all that! Little shit! Haha

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  • jucedaguy

    Forever alone girl.

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  • lovebuzz1025

    You sound like me.

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  • blaster

    I think I get the girls being so attractive thing , if they are that is.Even a lot of girls get that bi or not. I just f'n love admiring a beautiful chick and her body. It just makes me wanna devourer her all over, look at it for hours, feel it everywhere , do stuff to it, have my way with it. I'm not interested in me so much I just wanna enjoy her body .
    Sometimes I see a girl and just feel like saying pleaaase just let me enjoy your body for a few hours , a girls body can be so beautiful . A guys , sure they can be but I dunno it's in a different way to me but hey I'm straight male so it's gonna look like that to me anyway.
    Dunno if your gay or not , bi I'd say.

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  • Blackwidow

    Highly bi-sexual.

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  • ccjigsaw

    That's pretty normal, all the biased comments in your post put aside :P I have a friend who's hugely sexually active and doesn't like the look of penis's and such either. She still likes to get around though. I was also like that before my current boyfriend, I didn't get off just by looking at my bf's body like he did. That changed for me though. I think part of it was cause I never really took the chance to look, but also cause my boyfriend is actually really hot. Overall normal though, maybe it's one of those "girls are different than guys things"?? Or maybe you haven't found the right guy visually yet :P

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  • Attention seeker or bullshit spewer. Just another lame Bi/Lesbian post thats been worded differently to sound more interesting but fails. I think most of them come from the same tard.

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  • MoeLester

    Wesley is correct.

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