Is it normal that i am sexually attracted to men but prefer women intellectuly?

I am assuming that I am homosexual. I am aroused by men but I prefer being with a woman mentally.

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74% Normal
Based on 39 votes (29 yes)
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  • Light-Yagami

    I'm like this as well (but the other way round as I'm female); I asked someone about it and they called me a heteroromantic homosexual. Romantically attracted to the opposite sex but sexually attracted to the same sex. It's obviously not normal and not a good position to be in, but it's your sexuality and there's nothing you can do about it.

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  • robato_revision1

    I'm a female, romantically attracted to the same sex and sexually attracted to the opposite sex. I started to realize this since I was a teen, my tendency to fall on love with the same gender, and gradually come to realize when it comes to sex, I wanted more than the same gender could provide me.
    It's tiring to be honest.
    It's really hard to commit when it comes to relationship because to your partner, despite the fact that you were born this way, it's just unacceptable.
    It's complicated but what the hell.

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    • ㅤㅤㅤ

      Dildos exist!

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  • Lonely2

    I need both men and women...they each give me something that I cant fully get from the other...I am attracted to women but I need men to really become a better man in certain qualities

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  • pdx

    heteroromantic homosexual my ass, thats bullshit you people tell yourselves to justify your gayness

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I'm attracted to the scent of death.

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  • ㅤㅤㅤ

    Haha, that's normal. You actually remind me of this character from an anime, he was a bisexual drag queen that fell in love with a woman and they had a child - she was very strong and smart and he remained the house dad. Unfortunately the wife died and the father said that he would never love another woman again. Although he would date various men, he always thought about his wife. So sweet!

    I love guys because they're funny, witty, and cute, but I love women because of how pretty and cute they are, how kind, gentle, and maternal they can be, boobs (of course), curves, and how sympathetic and emotional they can be. Idk in the end, I like both. Both is good! I used to joke in saying that fi i could mix the personalities of men and put them together with the appearances of women, I would, but now I just adore both genders!

    :) Go women and men, you 're both awesome. Rock on.

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  • thegypsysailor

    If you are quite young, then the problem most likely stems from the fact that the only guys you meet are also young. It's silly to think that men can't be as intellectually stimulating as women. It's just that girls develop faster in their teens than guys so the guys seem quite childish and silly. Be patient, for they will catch up to you, or else start hanging around with older guys.
    Being a homosexual is more about the physical than the intellectual anyway, so finding gals mentally more interesting than guys, is not really part of that.

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    • Lonely2

      Emotionally we ate also attracted to certain ones

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  • palepunk

    I definitely wouldn't say that you're a homosexual. Can you imagine yourself marrying a woman and meeting her physical and emotional needs? Could she do the same for you?

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    • killing_time

      Love and sex aren't the same thing. You can have love and never have sex and vice versa. Marriage has nothing to do with sex, except that people are choosing who they call their love of the life based on the based at "making love" (and money... but that's a completely different topic.)

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