Is it normal that i am selectively homosexual?

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I am male, 25 and straight in terms of relationships, but selectively homosexual in terms of sexuality.
I'm not attracted to the idea of being in a relationship with a guy and kissing or hugging him.
I've had good relationships and sex with girls (am in a straight relationship now), but I've also masturbated with guys and exchanged blowjobs.
I wouldn't go any further; the idea of anal sex doesn't turn me on.
It's only with certain guys though; looking up homosexual pornography doesn't turn me on either.
My current GF calls it "just a kink", like how some girls have lesbian sexual tendencies.
Wondering what you guys think.

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  • CDmale4fem
    3 years ago

    That remunds me, i think i am selectively bi-curious still. Very selective about who and what, nothing wrong with that.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    People have described similar experiences on IIN before, they occasionally engage sexually with the same sex for fun but don’t really feel “attraction” to them.

    I don’t know what the official word is for it, I’ve jokily called it “biselectual” in the past and women who do it have called themselves “party lesbians”. Not everyone does it but I don’t think it’s that weird, use condoms and carry on.

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    You're not gay, like your gf says it sounds like just a kink.

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  • my_life_my_way
    3 years ago

    I’m the same but I’m a girl. I would only ever be interested in a relationship with a man but I find girls hot and would make out with or do sexual stuff with another girl.

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  • gigiroso
    3 years ago

    Thank you for your responses. I think a lot of insecurity comes from the stigma. Getting immediately slapped with the label GAY and whatnot. That seems less the case for females with lesbian kinks.

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