Is it normal that i am racist and homophobic?

If you see a gay couple kiss on the street and you are a person who tends to be empathic and impressionable, you will automatically imagine yourself in their place. Now, if you are completely straight this experience will probably not be to your liking. There is nothing wrong with that, It's normal. I feel something similar when I see people eat jalapenos raw, it horrifies me (I really hate spicy food).
The trick is to understand this feeling is happening inside your head. No one is doing it to you. It's not their fault you have radically different tastes. In fact they might feel the same way when they see you hug and kiss your wife.
REALLY understanding there are people completely separate and different from you, is no trivial matter. Most people are quite incapable of that, most of the time, I think.

by the logic of some if yalls homophobic yalls secretly gay

so by that same logic if yalls racist is ysll secretly black?

I don't care for Brussel Sprouts, does that make me a vegist?

You could take out 2 birds with one stone and have sex with someone of the same gender but a different ethnicity. More self-loathing couldn't make you a worse person.

Yeah, that's pretty normal; even in the 21st century, prejudice still exists in high quantities.