Is it normal that i am not sure whether i am asexual or really hard to please?

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I usually don't care at all about sex. I have only had sex a few times through my life (I am a 24 year old guy), but I really don't mind.

The thing is that I do get cravings every now and then, and I do "please myself" sporadically. The times I had sex I was really looking forward to it, but during intercourse everything just felt extremely disappointing.

I don't have much experience, but I have done it enough times and with very "skilled" people from both genders. They just weren't able to please me at all.

And well, I am just wondering... Am I truly asexual? Maybe I just haven't found anyone good enough. The desire, though weak, is undeniably inside of me... but maybe I just need someone able to "awaken" me or something like that. I just don't know.

So, what do you think people?

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, not sexual desire.

    You're just difficult to please, maybe you need to work out what you like then actually tell your partner

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