Is it normal that i am into only latin american/mexican men?

I am a Caucasian woman who is incredibly into the general physical appearance, personality and culture of men who are from Mexico or Latin America. I also find the Spanish language and the way they speak very seducing. These men are (usually, from what I've seen) romantic, musical, good cooks and good dancers. Ever since high school I've had this strange obsession with men of these origins. I have trouble being attracted to men of any other nationality. Is this normal?

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Based on 19 votes (17 yes)
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  • IMissMary

    Not a problem, I'm a black male and I only like Asian women

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    • Thank you, a simple, relatable answer like I wanted!

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      • IMissMary

        Enjoy what you like...I do.

        Not sure how long you have been enjoying what you like, but I've been enjoying what I like for about 15 years now. With that said I could share some lessons learned. But I think you will eventually learn your own.

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        • I have been enjoying it since a rather young age, haha. Thank you for the encouragement!

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          • IMissMary

            Thats great.

            Those Latin men have been lucky, being a Black guy I think White women make great lovers and are a good match for people of color.

            FWIW the sexual energy was on another level when I dates White women. Actually I'm kinda jealous

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  • RoseIsabella

    What about Puerto Ricans?

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    • Yes. Basically any guy whose native language is Spanish and is tan with dark hair. They are just so irresistible to me.

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  • Hugolini

    I am from Brazil and I am always interested to blonde European women. Even though everyone says brasilian girls are the sexiest I am only atracted to Europeans.

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  • Fugazi,

    What if you met a spanish man from spain

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    • If they speak Spanish. A lot of them speak a different language like Catalan I think.

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  • NyanStrike

    It's not bad. People are attracted to different people, and even if they dont realize, they may have a preference over some certain race. As long as you still give other races a chance (sort of), its completely fine.

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    • It's not a race it's a nationality but yeah. It's not that I don't give other people a chance, it's that I feel significantly less attraction to them

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      • The sailor is dead

        Actually it is a race, at least what you are implying in your OP which is all hispanic men. Consider that there are plenty of white men who are citizens of Mexico or other Latin American countries. Their nationality is those countries, but it sounds like you aren't attracted to them based mostly on their skin color. Otherwise why even mention that you are Caucasian ? If it wasnt racial, and was truly just national you would just say "i'm American and only attracted to all Mexicans, regardless of what they look like or sound like, even if they are white and speak english"

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        • Latin American and Mexican are nationalities. I mentioned being Caucasian only to clarify that I am of different origin, because sometimes if I tell this story to other people, they will suggest that maybe it is because I am also from Latin America, which I am not. The word Caucasian was meant for clarification only for the people who might ask the above question. Lastly, this is truly just national. I am attracted to all native Spanish-speaking men from Latin America and Mexico, regardless of what they sound like or look like.

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          • The sailor is dead

            It sounds like its more of a language thing for you then. Native spanish speakers (or very fluent people who have learned the language and use an accent). Spanish is a romance language, just like French, so i would say this is normal. But be careful to distinguish between the PERSON and the LANGUAGE

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            • Yes, I very much love the sound of the language. The entire package with the general Latin appearance and romantic personality is just a bonus.

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  • The sailor is dead

    Eventually you will come to realize that most hispanics are greasy, lazy, and annoying. And the men are especially sleazy and disgusting. I live in miami so i know.

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    • Eventually you will come to realize that your statement is not only extremely narrow-minded, but is drawn from only personal context and is false.

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      • The sailor is dead

        I'm just telling you the truth. I deal with all types of hispanics everyday-- from every country in latin america, central america, spain, etc. You may wish for them to all be romantic guitar playing swarthy mysterious dancing cooking men like in the movies, but it just isn't so. Most are just BMW driving impatient assholes. Sorry

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        • I adapted the general characteristics from real-life experiences from meeting native Spanish-speaking men from various countries. Miami is known to have rude people everywhere, I'm not surprised Latin Americans/Mexicans/other Spanish speaking people that YOU encounter are often rude and impatient. Almost all Latin American/Mexican men that I have met possessed three or more of the qualities that I listed that you think are so impractical and only out of the movies. Your life experiences from dealing with Hispanics everyday should not define my and everyone else's way of viewing the group of people. We all have different experiences, and from mine, I can assure you that the men from Spanish-speaking countries I've met accurately fit the description I provided in my post.

          (The only question that I posed and was looking for an answer to was if it is normal to only be attracted to men of a specific nationality. I wasn't looking for this long discussion about how much these men annoy you.)

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        • IMissMary

          Just to be fair.

          A woman once told me that "She knows how men think because she went to bars and have seen how men are." My response to her was [which was true] You only know how men think who go to bars, men like me don't go to bars and I can tell you that we think differently.

          I said all that to say....perhaps the Latin folk you have experience with are the type that frequent the types of places and events you gained your experience. For example, sleazy people go to sleazy places where they can do sleazy things. Lazy people hang out in places that accept their laziness and so on...

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