Is it normal that i am hated because i slept with someone who is taken ?

He's awful for cheating on his girlfriend and you're awful for having sex knowing he was in a relationship. You're both just awful.

you're both sluts, both of you were in the wrong

I hear you, I was with a guy and he slept around (we didn't have a title and that was the excuse). The girl came up to me and apologized. I remember telling her "Why would I be mad at you? He fucked up." I even told her, that even if she knew about me and was the one to initiate, it was still his choice to go through with it. The fact that she apologized showed me she had remorse for what she did, and although we're not friends she has my respect because of it.
However if you knew he was taken, you're no angel either and you have to accept that this is the backlash you're going to get.

It makes you a bitch if you take advantage of your body. At least go for the guys that aren't taken since you're apparently so fucking goddess-like. I'd call you both fucked up individuals. You deserve all the names thrown at you, be he certainly does too. It wouldn't be so bad if she knew, but leaving her in the dark is worse.

Did the OP run away and hide?

Yes it's normal for others to blame and hate you because you fucked a guy that was already in a relationship. It means you're a selfish 'home wrecker'. You screwed over whatever girl is his girlfriend.

The guy is also trash.

You should tell his girlfriend because this POS is going to cheat on her again.

I like sluts.

I like your kind ! I say girls like you are men trapped in a womans body !

You are both in the wrong- and I find it humorous that you decide to make a post ASKING if it is normal to be hated to doing something IMMORAL.

Seriously- as if you had to ask.

Yes its completely normal to be hated bc ur a slut and a dirty whore!

Try to imagine what you'd feel like in her position.

Yeah, that's normal, unfortunately. In society there are certain boundaries that must be observed if one is to be socially accepted. Defy them at your own risk. Sleep with a married person or an engaged one at your own risk. Someone is going to hate you for that, at very least the offended partner. Okay, so society is a bit on the sick side and we should not be so damned possessive of another person. What can we do to change that? Don't think it will happen in a hurry. I think the whole human race has a sickness.

dont feel bad he was the one who arroused you he touched u so he showed u he wanted u and its wrogn to cheat and yer u wrong for sleepig with him but hey clearly he liked u more than his gf so dont feel bad ur only human im sure alot of guys would do what he did me personally not but yer it will be ok just ignore them

Yea dont mean to be rude but you sound like the kind of girl I wouldn't trust around my boyfriend. You were both in the wrong.

i think he is the slut but u was the whore :PP anyway he is not the victim ur the victim for ur lust and he was the the one not faithful to his gf ..

Oh well

Mistake or not, it certainly is not the end of the world. Men who "kiss and tell" are immature, and bragging to their friends is a poor attempt at proving their manliness. The other guys have only heard his exaggerated version of what happened and, frankly, are calling you a whore because they are jealous that they didn't get any. (oh, boo hoo!)

The best thing you can do is to not let them know it gets to you. You can accomplish that AND stop them dead in their tracks if you have a response ready that will totally catch them off guard. In other words, you need a comment to which they cannot reply and doesn't piss them off either. I use humor. I've been called a whore more times than I can remember. When an occasion arises in which I am referred to as a whore, I speak to the person making the comment in a non-threatening way, and say, "I am not a whore... (pause, pause) ...I never charge for sex." There is no reply to that, except laughter, which is the desired outcome. Additionally, I have successfully defended myself without admitting to anything! (Yes, I said I never charge for sex; that doesn't mean there is sex involved. If no sex is involved, one certainly cannot charge for it.)

You made a mistake, just try not to sleep with someone who's taken. Now days the word whore gets put on anyone who dares to be adventurous.

Well it's not the decent thing to do but as long as you can sleep at night (hopefully not with anyone else's bloke) knowing you'd done the wrong thing and carrying on like this means one day, when ur not so attractive, people might turn their noses up at you and you end up alone!
To be fair he is worse than you, but your the one who has to live with your actions! Btw your obviously not all that! He didn't ditch his gf for you he wanted to keep what you'd done as a dirty little secret from her n too your joint friends you were no more than a conquest! When you say "only because I have the guts to pull the kinda guys that many other girls only drool about" the girlfriend bagged him! You were just a hole ;) enjoy ur slag badge. Don't get too loose.

How old is he? it'd be easier to understand if he as REALLY younger. And you really shoulda left that shit alone, but he's worse.