Is it normal that i am happy with my boyfriend's sexual dysfunction?

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My boyfriend has a traumatic masturbatory syndrome resulting from masturbating face-down.

This means that he has delayed ejaculation, which means very long sex sessions. He is a fantastic lover and I love the long sessions.

Is it normal that I love the fact that he has a problem, or am I just selfish?

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Based on 49 votes (45 yes)
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  • tzrtzr125
    8 years ago

    It isnt normal, but if both of you are happy, then everything should be ok. How does he masturbate face down?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Some TMS practitioners rub their penises against the mattress, pillow, or other bedding, or the floor. Some TMS practitioners lie on their stomachs and thrust into their hands.
      What's wrong with masturbating in this fashion? Masturbating face down puts excessive pressure on the penis, and especially on the base of the penis. These sensations are not easily replicated in conventional masturbation or in sexual intercourse. This can make TMS practitioners unable to have normal sexual relations. A survey conducted for this web site revealed that males who masturbate conventionally have sex 6.6 times more often than TMS practitioners.

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      • tzrtzr125
        8 years ago

        Thanks. I didn't know about that. I used to do that when I was a teenager but I would use something soft, like a folded towel over a pillow. It hasn't affected me in any way..... so far.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago

    I think it's normal enough but I prefer very short sex sessions. But I have my own issues.

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  • itsnotnormal4
    8 years ago

    Well as long as you continue to fulfill your purpose in life of having a penis thrust in and out of you it is fine. Just don't forget to make some time to cook his dinner and clean his house.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    TMS isn't so bad. Takes me 45 minutes, so I give my lady lots of love while I'm giving her a slow bang.

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  • rimjob
    8 years ago

    Sounds like something your lover does. Tell him to simply stop jacking off. Its not like he can't control his hand now come on....

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      You must have misunderstood. I actually LOVE his sexual dysfunction

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      • rimjob
        8 years ago

        Thanks for reply. Keep in mind, if the guy jacks off to his porn too frequently the habit may GROW beyond a lust your pussy cannot provide. Only his hand jerking him self off consider yourself warned.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Does the same apply if he does t use his hand but instead rubs the bed?

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          • rimjob
            8 years ago

            It's only ok if a silk-stocking is used or an oscillation tool for Masturbatory purposes. Otherwise an ejaculation release is prohibited.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Sexual dysfunction is not fun. I have problems getting off and keeping a sex drive and it has ruined sex and dating for me. I havent had any kind of sex in years and I am not even sure if I want to because girls are usually either judgmental or blame themselves. Not only do I not really enjoy sex I have become to not enjoy any sort of sexual thoughts which usually just make me angry. I really should see a sex therapist but am not sure it would help. I still get aroused at times which only makes me irritated and I often wish I had no sex drive at all.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    As long as you don't have TMJ the TMS should be okay.

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  • dick555
    8 years ago

    Nothing wrong with longer sex sessions.

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