Is it normal that i am easily influenced by an online buddy?

55% Normal
4 Comments

I have a friend on the internet that's 9 months younger than me. He's homeschooled. Or, more like unschooled. I've talked about him before. Recently, after sharing some weird stories I had from third grade, he suddenly starts considering not to be friends with me. Granted, I've drawn porn of his characters, disrespected some of his other friends, bullied him nonstop 3 years ago (even though I regret it), and got irritated with him when he didn't share personal info, but I still want to be friends with him. It's actually only happened once where he stopped being friends with me. I treated it like a big breakup from a couple, which I was just crying to myself and eating a lot. He started being friends with me again the following day to stop the drama.

I'm kind of getting off-topic.

Point is, he just says he's starting to reconsider being friends with me, and I just sit and stare at the computer monitor, reconsidering my life choices that brought me to that particular point. I seriously value this friendship that I have with him. My brutal honesty just tends to rub him the wrong way. Am I normal?

Voting Results
55% Normal
Based on 11 votes (6 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 4 )
  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Wow.. I'm just amazed that he's kind enough to be friends with you when you bullied him before. No sarcasm or mocking tone intended. It honestly just makes him sound like a sweet kid.

    Yeah, this seems normal. I guess if I lost a friend there's a chance of me to treat it as a break up, too - that really depends on the friend I would lose, though. On another note, please treat him well from now on. He seems like a sweet kid to even give you a chance.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • Keno9988
      9 years ago

      The thing is, out of the blue earlier today he said "We're not going to be friends anymore."

      Welp, I lost all purpose in life.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • dom180
    9 years ago

    This is not normal. I think you should see a therapist, tell them everything you have written here and put a serious effort into changing.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • DumBelle
    9 years ago

    ....
    ....

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0