Is it normal that i am a single woman who longs for male affection (hugs,kisses

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I am so lonely all the time and I just long for a handsome man to hug me, kiss me, hold me tight as I fall asleep in his arms and other forms of non sexual affection.
Idk maybe it's because my dad was verbally abusive and cold towards me as I was growing up.
I try to mask my desperation as best as I could when Iam around men, but sometimes I end up crying because I am in need of this especially when I see a couple cuddling; I just wish at the moment when Iam upset a man could hold me.
And no I am not an ugly loser or have a shitty personality. I get hit on a lot by guys and people tell me Iam a very sweet and quiet person.
Is there any way I can get a guy to affect me without comming of as needy, desperate, or cheap?

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Based on 39 votes (34 yes)
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  • TrustMeImLying
    9 years ago

    Go to a university campus and hold a sign labeled, "Test anxiety? Free hugs!"

    Sure it will only accomplish 1/3 of what you desire. But then you'll have only two things remaining :O

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    • megadriver
      9 years ago

      Hahaha! You got a good sense of humor mate.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    Perhaps you should try a dating website?

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  • silkspector
    7 years ago

    Get out more often sitting in complaining won't fix it

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  • Thorolf
    8 years ago

    It's completely normal to want affection, I hope you find the right guy soon.

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  • 1knotted
    8 years ago

    Hey girl, I'm a guy in my 80's, a widower. The little guy ain't dead yet even though he takes a little longer to rise up. Point is - with the missus gone, I would be happy just to have someone to cuddle up with. In the old days we said, 'come sit on my lap & we'll talk about whatever comes up'. But seriously, even dirty old men need a hug & a kiss now & then. A little conversation, a cup of coffee or a glass of wine (NO whine) and a shoulder to lean on. Then, only time will tell. xoxoxo

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  • joker69676
    9 years ago

    I have a guy friend who seriously just cuddles with girls. Thats seriously it. Hes even told me that theres a couple that if they reeeally wanted to, he would fuck but he doesnt. And some he has no desire to do anything more than just have a cuddle buddy. Its kinda sweet; just letting you know there are people like that out there.

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    • IAmBackYo
      9 years ago

      I'm like that. I think about sex, but I prefer to masturbate. Actually, the act of sex grosses me out. Everytime that I've done it, I felt super gross after. I'd prefer just to find someone to cuddle and kiss and that's it.

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  • Reaper101
    9 years ago

    I'm desperate too

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  • My02cents
    9 years ago

    Wish i could give you a hug !!

    From the way you wrote your desire, i know you would make a perfect girl for some lucky guy.

    Just be careful not to get desperate and get either hurt or abused in the process...and believe me when i say that it`s not easy for guys to stop at only hugging. We always wanna go further.

    just My02cents

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  • VirgilManly
    9 years ago

    I'll send a hug your way.

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  • JohnnytheSnake
    9 years ago

    im down... pm me. trust me i have a huge dick

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    • Reaper101
      9 years ago

      Not sure that is what she's after... of course maybe it is I don't know

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      • JohnnytheSnake
        9 years ago

        Dont kid yourself. straight women want a dick to give them the dick.

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        • IAmBackYo
          9 years ago

          Actually Johnny, it's because of guys with your personality that girls run away from dick. You have an ugly character. Sorry. The truth sucks.

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