Is it normal that i am a black girl that is not attracted to black men?

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I am a young black woman in college that has finally come to terms with the fact that I am not at all attracted to black men. I mostly date white and hispanic men. I like Asians too but I can't get into black men. I tried to date one and wasn't into it. My family gives me crap for it and I get harassed when I am out with the white guy I am dating. Am I wrong?

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Based on 53 votes (46 yes)
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  • Cucco
    10 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with dating outside your race and it's sad that you get shit for it.

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    • dybex
      10 years ago

      Maybe that's why she does it.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    It's your life and nobody's business who you chose to love. Besides mixed race children and people in general tend to be very beautiful. As long as these are decent men with whom you are compatible and ya'll treat one another with loving kindness then I say, GO FOR IT!

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  • pantyrose
    10 years ago

    I'm a black girl, too, and I'm not that attracted to black men either.

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  • UsernameAnonymous
    10 years ago

    Why the hell would that be not normal? I does'nt matter wich colour you are. You can like whatever you wanna like.

    If someone asks me what type of men I like I always say "beautiful men" that can be black latino white or asian men and so on.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    "I like Asians too but I can't get into black men"

    Hahahaha.

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  • AtomicCollider
    10 years ago

    Of course it's normal

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    I feel ya. I'm a white man and I only date Indian or Middle Eastern girls.

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  • RainbowDischarge
    10 years ago

    Normal. Im asian and only been attracted to white guys.

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  • jr__
    8 years ago

    They get plenty dont you worry. Carry on.

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  • RamennoodleMaster
    8 years ago

    U will likely run into a someone who changes your mind. All races have attractives and unattractives. its odd that you get crap for dating outside of your race knowing that we live in the 2010s. do u live in the south? that would explain alot.

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  • Soilworker2099
    9 years ago

    I'm a dude... And I don't find black( like I'm talking the middle of Africa black black super black) women attractive, however the mild toned black girls and caramel or crossed raced girls alright though... It's not a colour issue though, it's features... facial and bodily features differentiate the types of beauty, basically hot is hot to me and just don't find certain types of women appealing, especially Hindu women.... Good sweet lord and baby Jesus ... Nothing there for me.

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  • college
    10 years ago

    I'm also a black college woman, and while I don't find black men unattractive, I've always pictured myself marrying a white one for some odd reason.

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  • farkelu
    10 years ago

    Sounds perfectly normal to me! I'm white, and I love white women, but I'm also very attracted to asians, hispanics, and yes, the occasional black girl. Some are very attractive. I dated one once. Are you single?

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  • galexiz
    10 years ago

    it is ok, some people have a type of men in your case you like other kind of races

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  • mixwell
    10 years ago

    It's all good, im white and I like asian latina and other ethnicity women. Come get some white chocolate girl

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  • Smackdatho
    10 years ago

    i dont want you either

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  • asura
    10 years ago

    Girl bye

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