Is it normal that i almost had sex with a 29 year old guy?

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I'm 19.
We've been hanging out for months, he's really nice with me and we always cuddle and watch movies (that cheesy stuff). One day we were hanging out as usual, and one thing let to another and we started making out, this became a normal thing between us.
But a few weeks ago we really got into it and almost did it, I told him I wasn't ready (I'm a virgin).
I think I'm starting to like him because I can't stop thinking about him but something inside me tells me he just wants to have sex with me and that's it.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Follow your gut feeling and ask him about it.

    Also, look into getting birth control: https://bedsider.org/methods

    If you do decide to have sex with him, it would suck if you got an std/sti or pregnant. You can get free birth control or condoms from Planned Parenthood.

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  • maz9
    7 years ago

    You should test him. Stop cuddling or making out with him for a month and see if he starts behaving differently towards you. Don't make it obvious that you're testing him, just tell him you're not in the mood for whatever he wants to do. After you give him this test, see if you notice any changes. If he seems less enthusiastic about hanging out with you, he's probably just using you for sex. If, however, he acts the same as when you 2 were making out and cuddling, he likely thinks of you as more than just a sex toy, and actually likes you for you.

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  • brookelexx
    6 years ago

    sure! i’ve been sleeping with someone 20 yrs older than me. sometimes it just works. may sound weird to other people but i keep my life private anyways so i don’t care.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Next time go all the way. It will make for a more enjoyable read.

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  • ieatcunt
    7 years ago

    Have you ever seen his naked cock and nuts or any male's cock in person yet ?

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  • WinterStormGuy_Of_Feb9,1968
    7 years ago

    We are all entitled to remain a virgin
    if i never want actual sex that is than
    my choice in life and what the 100 million
    other people want do with their life's that
    is their business and not of mine to judge.

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  • WinterStormGuy_Of_Feb9,1968
    7 years ago

    If you noticing cuddling with your guy friend
    is getting more sexual or he says sexual stuff
    to you, yes unfortunately he most likely just wants
    sex from you and you got ask yourself what you want.

    I'm a 48 year old single white male and can honestly
    say i never had sex with any girl cause i want a girl
    who will truly love me and not just want me for sex
    most guys truly don't think like me but i see things
    different.

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