Is it normal that i’m a lesbian after my boyfriends pushed it

My last 2 boyfriends pushed me being with a woman. I didn’t want to but after constantly reassuring me that they think it’s attractive, I started seeing a woman while with my last boyfriend. It felt so comfortable with her and it initially excited him. I’ve developed a bond with her, and I no longer want him. He’s complaining now bc he still wants me. He still supports me even though I’ve only been seeing her, so I want to try to milk him for awhile.

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Comments ( 26 )
  • Alduin

    Stop milking him for money. Get a job, contribute to society and spoil your woman with your hard earned cash.

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  • nikkiclaire

    No. Using someone for financial gain through emotional manipulation is never right.

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    • He wanted me to be with a woman. He can pay.

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      • nikkiclaire

        And you can choose being a bitch I suppose. It doesn't mean it's normal.

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      • lordofopinions

        I agree. He was the one that pushed you in that direction and now you like it. Too bad sucker. Bleed him.

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        • Yes, I like it. I’m thankful that he pushed me but he wanted it so he should pay.

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      • Mad333a

        No that's not how it works

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  • SunAnonymous

    Welcome to the gay side. Tho you sound bi (which is fine too)
    Yeah it’s normal. He should have seen it coming really

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  • ChurchHotel

    I was with you the whole way till you said to milk him. Naa. talk to him and if you don't want to be with him. Dump him! Congratulations on becoming les (y)

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  • RoseIsabella

    I have a message for your boyfriend.

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  • Bailey_Rose

    Ordinarily I would not condone this be he brought it upon himself. Serves him right. Take his money. Spoil her with it!!

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  • Biptetk

    He already gambled and lost. No need to punish him any further. Yes, he pushed you into it but it was your choice to continue with this other relationship. You're both at fault here. You could have dumped him when he was pushing but you allowed him to to do it.

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  • debil

    fuck bitchboy up

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  • You should break up with him. It's not fair what you're doing. Basically you're lying to him every moment. As for your sexuality. You don't turn lesbian. Either you are or you aren't. If you feel physical attraction to both sexes, then you are bi. Simple. You must know if you're excited by a guy or a girl or both

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  • HypnoDom

    One of the most common fantasies for men is two women together, so it's quite common for them to encourage it. Women are beautiful works of art, and culturally tend to be more physically and emotionally intimate with each other than men are, so it's no wonder you could find desire for another woman.

    Don't feel like you have to label yourself a lesbian though. There are many possible combinations, and you have the right to change your interests as often as you like.
    Some women get interested in other women, and lose interest in men.
    I've known women who said they were straight, but "there was this one time..." where a certain specific woman just totally captivated them. But after her, they had no interest in other women.
    I've known a number of women who said they found women most attractive, most sexually exciting, but really, really wanted to be in a relationship with a man. Different needs were being met by the different genders.
    Then there are the bicurious women, heteroflexible women and bisexual women.

    Don't feel the need to label yourself if you aren't ready, and don't leap to conclusions. Learn more about yourself and what you do and don't want. :)

    Then we have a completely separate issue. You are no longer interested in having a relationship with your boyfriend, but you want his money. It sounds like you are deceiving him. I do not condone that. It is not fair to use people, for money, for sex or for something else.

    Perhaps you are in, or can work out, a consensual relationship. Maybe the three of you will be together, but you interact differently with him than with your girlfriend. Perhaps he has a sugar daddy fetish and you can work that out. Perhaps you'll find some other solution.

    But please don't deceive people and make them think they're in a relationship with you to get your money.

    But do have fun exploring this new adventurous side of yourself with your girlfriend!

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  • TerriAngel

    Have some class.
    I dont blame you for liking a woman.
    But milking, thats just a form of using.
    I wont condone that.
    not in this case. If its over its over.
    Use an asshole.
    this guy doesnt sound like an asshole.
    just neive.

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  • Boojum

    Why don't you sponge off your girlfriend if you and her have such a great thing going?

    You say your boyfriend's encouragement led you to understand you enjoyed being with women. Rather than being grateful to him for helping you discover this fact about yourself sooner rather than later, you want to punish him.

    Do you hate yourself for being a lesbian?

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  • Once he realises you are not coming back to him and drops you, he will have had a lucky escape. People that take all the time and give nothing back are scum and that is exactly what you are doing to him. You sound like the type of bitch that would have bled him dry and then dropped him anyway. Sleep with who you want but get some self respect and find a job so you can pay your own way.

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  • MisterPapaya

    If by "milk him" you mean jerk him off I'm sure he'd be fine with it.

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  • Checkmate_King

    Hah once you develop a taste for pussy you never go back

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  • Hahahaha he fell for his own bait.

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  • Serves him right.

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    • He did help me since I like it, but I still want his money. I spend some of it on her.

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      • lordofopinions

        Good for you! You likely would not have gone that road but he pushed you down it. Let him pay and maybe with his next gf he won't rock the boat and leave well enough alone.

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      • I think you should leave him for good and be with her.

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  • Milk him like the heffer he is.

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