Is it normal that he still stays overnight with his ex- wife every 3 weeks?

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He divorced his wife. He moved here and began a relationship with me. We have known one another many years.

He still insists on going back to the house he and his ex wife shared together (2 hrs away) , and staying with her every 3 weeks. He claims he does not have feelings for her, and stays in his old house for convenience. Most of his belongings are still there.

He insists he needs to go back and see his step-grand children and grown step children (they are all in their twenties), but they do not live in his ex-wife's house. I want to trust him, but I feel this situation may cause more problems for he and I, and also for he and his ex-wife (she still wants him back mostly for financial reasons).

is it normal and what should I do?

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7% Normal
Based on 75 votes (5 yes)
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  • x1frosty16
    11 years ago | pl

    He's fucking her

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    • kr24
      11 years ago

      x1frosty16

      THE TRUTH TELLER

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    • pappusharma
      11 years ago

      The bitter truth....

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Are you blind?

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    • Terence_the_viking
      11 years ago

      I think she may be deaf you may need to speak up.

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  • foxyk
    11 years ago

    Get away from him, far away. There is no way he isn't cheating on you. I'm very sorry to say, but normal people do not stay at their ex's house. When my parents divorced, my mom had no where to live for a while and wanted to stay with my brother and I at my dad's house. My dad could not do it because he was dating someone. That's a little extreme, but seriously.. Does your boyfriend have absolutely no where to go on those night? It's just for convenience isn't it? Yeah, that's very suspicious and I would tell him to stop and if he doesn't want to then u definitely know it must be a big deal to him and he's probably cheating on you.....
    He's staying overnight at his ex wife's house, just think about it!

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  • Dream_Killer
    9 years ago

    Yeah, they are definitely doing the nasty. He may claim he doesn't have feelings for her, but its obvious if he keeps going over there what they are doing. Quite honestly, why is his stuff still there if he is with you? He should move his stuff where he is staying.

    Maybe next time you should ask him if you could come along too.

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  • golden_showers
    9 years ago

    what if you went with him? how does he react?

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    Once every three weeks? That's pretty regular for a booty call. He might be messing around, but not for sure.

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  • Moonbow
    11 years ago

    No it's not normal -- for him or for you! You can bet there's more going on than just seeing step-grandchildren and why do you put up with it? Tell him if he wants to see those kids -- which I seriously doubt -- he can arrange to meet them away from his ex-wife's house. If he refuses, tell him he can stay with his ex-wife permanently because he won't be staying with you anymore and MEAN IT!

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    This sounds like my mother. Shit is obvious but you are too scared to break it off and be alone for a while so you would rather be hurt and have someone. Now my mother has finally divorced.

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