Is it normal that he isn't talking to me?

So this family friend and I have gotten close. We've known each other for three years and really get along. His siblings and I don't really talk and every time I'm at their place it's always me and him hanging out. He laughs at all my jokes and vice versa, and I've had some deep talks with him. He makes sure I'm okay when it looks like I'm not, takes me everywhere with him, and we always have a cheesy long eye contact moment. His sister unfortunately found out that i have feelings for him, and suddenly shouted it while we were all eating dinner. I simplu played it off and laughed. All he said was, "Okay." Now, i may be overthinking this. But it just seemed so much like he was interested in me. He doesn't act like that to my sister. I'm the only one he talks to. I'm so comfortable around him. We shared a hammock. We've both kind of distanced ourselves. We aren't as close. I haven't seen him in a while. Is this normal? How am i supposed to know what he feels?

he doesn't like you that way 6
he's nervous 12
he likes you 8
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  • Keepsake

    I wouldn't know. Go ask him. I'd say he may like you, but some people are just so genuinely nice and oblivious that it's hard to read them.

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    • notagoodusername

      Yeah, he's pretty difficult to read. I'll put my anxieties aside and give it a go. Thankyou

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  • Ilikedonuts22

    Many boys get nervous when it comes to those things

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  • peterrabbyt69

    Are you male or female?

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  • eat_the_puss

    It seems he feels over whelmed about it give him a couple days he just has to think about it its a guy thing we tend to stop talking to the women we like just to see if they honestly like us or if they want us even more then before dont rush just let him know u honestly like him

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    • notagoodusername

      Thanks so much. I was thinking about messaging him later (we live in quite far away from each other)

      Also great username

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