Is it normal that he is trying hard to impress me?

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I met a guy online and we had been texting for a month before we decided to meet in person. He is kind and sweet. But I feel like he is trying too hard to impress me... We've only met twice so far... Since the first meeting he has now been on a strict diet in order to lose some weight ....
Also, I eat healthily, so when we went to grab something to eat... I asked him if he normally has chips with his burger and he was reluctant to answer... I don't get why... I assumed that everyone wants chips with their burger but if I had not ordered chips he wouldn't have either! Which annoys me! Also, he first ordered a bottle of water, but when I ordered coca cola he changed his order and got a coca cola as well.... Is this normal?

This is just one example by the way and there are lots...

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    9 years ago

    Not having chips could just mean the opposite, maybe he's insecure about his body hence weight loss and embarrassed to pig out ( which it isn't but insecurity can do that to you)

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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago

    Its very normal. Hes definitely trying to impress you.

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  • Tommythecat.
    9 years ago

    He has no backbone, he's no good.

    He should be all "I'm gettin a fucking greasy burger you slut"

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Uh. Just be careful. Losing weight in general for someone is normal, but the change in his order is rather.. too try hard.

    Depending on other examples, just be careful if he ends up being a stalker.

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    • shuggy-chan
      9 years ago

      Yeah, my thoughts

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  • Faceless
    9 years ago

    I ordered just a bacon cheese burger the other day at the bar and ive regretted it ever since. Those fries are always on my mind.

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