Is it normal that he helped his sisters with their tampons?

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I'm seeing this guy and he told me something that is hard to forget, there was so much to take in that I only gathered so much info but here it is....

From what I gathered, his mother for some reason was no more in the family and he was the oldest sibling with his numerous sisters and dad in the family.

When his sisters started their periods, he physically helped them with their tampons and put them in and did this for all of them.

I'm not sure whether this is incredibly sweet, as he actually helped or if it is indeed really creepy and shouldn't of gone there under any circumstances.....what do you think? IIN?!

This creeps me out 8
I'm not sure about this 6
Only as last report 5
No!!! they are his sisters!! 4
That's really nice of him to help 7
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  • soleyman_the_magnificent
    4 years ago

    Sounds like another Duggar story...

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Nobody needs help putting in tampons, and if someone does then she can wear a pad. This is just some bullshit troll garbage.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      It really isn't, this is what he told me. I'm not sure how him making this up to me would benefit anyone.

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      • charli.m
        4 years ago

        If you're female, there's no way you wouldn't find this creepy and inappropriate.

        If you're male, and even slightly aware of anything outside yourself, you should know this is inappropriate and creepy.

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        • SwickDinging
          4 years ago

          I would also say that if you're female there is no way that wouldn't realise this story is utter bollocks.

          Perhaps OP is a horny teenage boy who doesn't understand how periods work.

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          • charli.m
            4 years ago

            That's a fair point.

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  • Tealights
    4 years ago

    It depends on the context, and his level of fascination with the ordeal.

    For example, let's say he brought it up randomly and went through all the details vividly as if his sisters were 9 - 11 years old again yesterday; then you may have a problem you should avoid.

    Also, little girls shouldn't start out with tampons because it'll hurt, feel uncomfortable, and take some effort getting it in there; which is why little girls should start with pads until they feel ready for tampons. However, men are men and will always go the route that's more interesting to them; if he was really a caring brother, he would have done his research thoroughly and opt for pads so she can get into the habit of taking care of her feminine needs alone.

    Ask why didn't he just have her use pads? They make pads of all different sizes and flows, and pads are the first things you see before the tampons. Like you have to actually search for tampon boxes, but pads are just right there. Also, ask if he got the proper size tampons because there are different sizes of those too. If he kept getting big ones, just didn't care, or fell back on "our mother wasn't around," then it's more than likely he was purposely setting it up so that he HAD to help them. We have the internet, and he could have researched, so there's no excuse on why he had to continue this routine other than he wanting it to continue.

    Good luck OP, trust your intuition.

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  • b3arboo
    4 years ago

    I can see why someone can think this is a nice thing to do, helping his sisters out and all but PHYSICALLY putting a tampon in IS NOT NORMAL! If he knew how to and was helping his sisters out he could of demonstrated like with a diagram and words. It’s 2019, everybody knows about YouTube! I’m all for siblings helping each other out, that’s sweet yeah, not touching her coochie and inserting a tampon. Putting a tampon in is a personal and private thing to do and anyway, just starting a period a tampon would be uncomfortable and possibly painful for a little girl. Always start by using pads and I hope his sisters do NOT think this is normal either.

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  • Whattheheck13
    4 years ago

    Your new boyfriend is a weirdo. I could see him doing that for you, but not his sisters... girl leave him alone before you get pregnant by him and have his daughter and he does that to her!!!

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  • CDmale4fem
    4 years ago

    I vote for TMI and it's creepy. There should have been someone, a school nurse, and aunt, another girl in school. Or still I would think if he did do it, then once is enough and they should know how after that. Into k he's just a sick fuck that wanted to Play with his sister's vaginas. You should check and make sure he's not on an RSO list somewhere.

    RSO-Registered Sex Offender.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    Uh doesn’t need to demonstrate it on her physically can just describe what to do. A description is good enough you eventually get the hang of it simple shit really. That’s weird if I had a sister I wouldn’t even do that.

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  • curious-bunny
    4 years ago

    If they needed help it's a good thing, if they didn't its creepy

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  • SwickDinging
    4 years ago

    This didn't happen so don't worry about it.

    However I would probably stop seeing this guy. Making up stories like that is really creepy. Doesn't sound like great boyfriend material.

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  • chuy
    4 years ago

    Depends on him and how he took to the situation.

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