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I am a man in my mid twenties, 5'7" with longish dark brown hair, skinny (160 pounds), and have a feminine body shape. I have a feminine face too (I think I look a lot like my mom). I've noticed that a lot of gay seem to hit on me, maybe because they think I'm gay too.
I know that feel, bro. I haven't met a gay guy that hasn't flirted with me. I think it's maybe because there's not many gay people around, possibly? :)
go back to france wit the rest of dem you sissy faggot.
nows if you'll excuse me, i's gonna go fuck mah cousin.
Here's what is up; Gay men (as a general, of course everybody is different) love to flirt. In the gay culture; flirting is akin to "playful banter". It's kind of like "Basic Socializing 101". Gay men flirt with each other non-stop, even when they are not remotely attracted to each other. Again, it's just playful socializing. I think every gay man I've ever met flirts with straight women reqularly, since it's just harmful fun with no expectations from either side. However, most gay men flirt with men they know to be straight as well. [I believe it's because we (gay men) typically grow up having to hide/repress our sexuality. We have to pretend we're straight in a straight world. Then eventually, we come out, gain our confidence, and realize just how much of the social stygma of being gay is absolute non-sense, and how much time we wasted in not being confident in our nature.] So we flirt with straight men we feel comfortable with. Men who have a calm, non-threating, or socially acceptable demeanor. Yes, some will flirt with straight men just to make them uncomfortable, but the vast majority flirt with straight men just to figure how "straight acting" they need to be around him, without making him uncomfortable.
So in short... most of the flirting gay men do, I'd say like 90%, isn't even serious. It's just for fun (intended to be fun for both parties), a harmless compliment, or even just to tease you the same way you tease your friends.
So just politely say "Hey buddy, I'm straight, but thanks for the compliment." and all your bases are covered. If he was genuinely interested in you, he now knows that you are straight and not interested. If he was just being socially friendly, you've let him know that you are straight, but not threatned by him. And if he flirting in a mean-spirited way he now knows it won't get you. And after saying that, you can now flirt back too, if you want, and both parties know that it's just harmless social flirting for fun.
I get the same thing. I went to a gay bar with one of my GFs to meet one of her gay friends there who was having his b day party, and I got hit on probably 15 times, ppl asking for my # and buying me drinks. So whenever I wanna drink for free I always go to the gay bar haha. Girls don't buy guys drinks. It's lame.
It is normal because the way you look. (no offence). If someone pushes you let him know that you are straight.
It seems you are basically attractive and some tweaking on your looks will make you attract the ladies.