Is it normal that every man i meet loves anal sex & says every woman does too?

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I have been dating after a long term relationship that lasted 5 years. Our sex life was wonderful but there were other problems. Now I am dating again, and eventually, when things start to get physical, every single man mentions that he loves anal sex. What is interesting is that each man says " Oh, I am very imaginative and like to try different things. You know, something other than "normal" intercourse, anal sex, etc."
I tried anal sex a number of times and found that it really hurt. I mean, it really hurt! Tried to get into it very gradually. I listened to the advice of a couple of close friends and also did a lot of reading about it. Everything I read indicated that yes, it was true, quite a few men and women love it.
Is it normal that I do not like it ? At all? It feels like an enema or that I am about to poop! Not at all sexual.

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  • UnabashedUser
    6 years ago

    You don't have to be fucked for hours anally, which is what is portrayed in porn. The best anal sex for me is getting right to the point of cumming either from oral or pussy sex, then putting the head either right on the hole or just a quarter inch inside and stroking off and cumming that way. Hardly any stroking in and out of the hole, but nice hot wet potion delivered. If you start out that way assuring her that you're not going in very far, or at all, gradually she'll be wanting it in more and more the next times you do it. Having her cum a few times first also helps her relax her bunghole.

    There will be a time that she will actually push hard when you start to cum to get it all inside her ass. Especially as the first few drops of your load lube the way.

    Trust me on this: approach it slowly and cautiously and after time most women will let you in their assholes.

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  • johnho
    9 years ago

    The thing is, truthfully, guys have a reason to like something up their butt because they have a prostate that is stimulated, women normally do it to please the man, but don't have a prostate so then usually do it for the mans pleasure, in my opinion..

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  • sandraasiilva
    9 years ago

    You're asking 2 different questions.
    "Is it normal that I do not like it?" I voted YES to this one.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    9 years ago

    I really don't get the fascination

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