Is it normal that being to pretty is ruining my life

I am very pretty and alot of ppl like me and want to be my friend but I feel like they don't really know me and I have a boyfriend that is inlove with me and is always talking about getting marred but it's only about the way I look not about me or the kind of person I am I feel like all my relationships with ppl are fake and meaningless I can't find anyone who will be real with me is it normal that being pretty is ruining my life ?

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Based on 24 votes (11 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Being pretty is the nicest thing ever invented after sliced bread. If you really thought it was a liability you'd scar yourself on purpose or smear drain opener on your face.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Did you seriously post this story twice? Did this story seriously get *approved* twice??

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    • Terence_the_viking

      I know right?

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      • shade_ilmaendu

        Someone must be sleepin on the job. >.<

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Ahh, no, usually, being pretty improves your life.
    I don't know if I should feel sorry for you. I think it is possible that you are over-estimating the power that your looks have though. Maybe your relationships aren't fake and meaningless because of your looks, maybe they are fake and meaningless because you are so used to attracting interest with your looks that you have yet to feel the need to put the effort into improving those relationships yourself... however, looks will only get you attention, it won't add quality to your relationships. You have to do that. With your personality.

    Obviously, there is something more to you than your good looks and you're the last person to realize it ;)

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    • KeddersPrincess

      ^Gotta go with NeuroNeptunian on this.

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  • thanksforthefreecar

    Hahaha this reminds me of that song Hot Problems

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  • Mando

    Well then why aren't you building relationships with people on the basis of more than good looks? That seems rather obvious.

    Do you know people with whom you share some interests or skills (music, sports, theatre, dance, literature, politics, community, games etc., etc.)? There are lot's of other things beside good looks upon which to base and build friendships!

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  • Ebil_Lightbulb

    If you can make friends with the unpopular kids, then you know it is not just your looks. And I don't mean the kids that want to be popular. You know that girl in the middle of class that doesnt laugh when the jocks make stupid jokes and she always sits with the same 4 ppl at lunch, having the time of their lives? Her. Make friends with her. She will think 'oh miss pretty stuckup must have nothing better to do than mess with me'. Once she gets to know you, she will either be frienda with you, meaning you actually have a real person under that prett6 face or she will shy away from you and not answer your calls meaning you reqlly are just a shallow pretty face and maybe you ahould work on your people skills more. Sorry for typos, my phone doesnt have autocorrect, it takes about 30 s3conds for what I typed to show up, and if I try to go back and fix it, it scrolls to the top amd geta stuck :S

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  • zohan

    You can never have true love as long as u keep juggling with 3 guys. Try to understand each b4 u move to the other

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  • i know the feeling i have the prettiest spleen

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  • frist

    Yes looks are only skin deep and true beauty is found and grown from within. I sympathise with you - you may be quite right that people want to "acquire" you because you are attractive. Have you considered making an effort to look less like a covergirl as an experiment? (Damaging your looks permanently is unnecessary and a cruel suggestion.) Those who accept you for you are unlikely to make much of it because they see you - the person; those who have a vested interest in your appearance will criticise or urge you to "fix" it. Take heart, take courage and find some people who care about you (and be sure to care about them too).

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  • Hellokittyprettygirl

    No I post this one time your an idiot loser

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    • Mando

      *your = you're If you are going to call someone an idiot on IIN you have to spell correctly. It's an IIN rule. :)

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    • loopoo

      Ooooo, the pretty girls a bitch, who'd have thought?

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  • BeautyBodyBrains

    Wow I wish I saw this post before I made mine but mine is kind of different scenario.

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