Is it normal that being self-conscious about my body keeps me from having sex?

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I have serious issues with the way my body looks and can't seem to let go of it. whenever I get the chance to have sex I just can't bring myself to do it worrying Bout how the other person will see me and be turned off.. My fiends who have weird bodies don't have a problem with it and keep hooking up. My body image and self-loathing is making me so unhappy. Help. If it matters my last relationship ended a year ago and lasted 6 years. I can't get back in the game because I feel so horrible. It doesn't help that the reason my relationship ended was because my guy was cheating on me with a much younger women with a gorgeous body.Please no rude comments, I will delete them

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  • tripw7
    9 years ago

    thegypsysailor says it like it is. I agree with him completely.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    You are who you are and you should just learn to accept yourself as you are. Of course, you could join a gym or go under the knife, but as you don't sound like a teen, it seems as though neither of these options interests you.
    If you look around you when you are out in public, you'll see couples of all sorts. People with serious burns (perhaps the most unattractive of physical deformities), horrid skin conditions or malformed body parts, happily strolling along with a partner.
    If you managed a 6 year relationship, then I don't see how it can all be such a big deal to you now. You know there are those who can accept your looks.
    As for the cheating; GET OVER IT. You are not the first woman in history to have been cheated on, and you certainly won't be the last.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Most guy's will fuck anything, put a bunch of guy's in prison for long enough and they'll start fucking each other, stick a guy in a field full of sheep for long enough and he'll start fucking them. Besides you probably don't look that bad, why not check out some of the amateurs on xhamster.

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