Is it normal that anything sexual with my boyfriend/best friend seems wrong?

27% Normal
3 Comments

My boyfriend and I, before we were going out, were best friends. There was nothing sexual between us whatsoever. But, we both fell in love with each other and he asked me out.
Kissing is fine, but when it's anything involving down either of our underwear I get a really strong feeling that it's wrong. It feels almost like incest. It hasn't happened with any previous boyfriends.
I don't know if it will be like it forever, but is it normal?

Voting Results
27% Normal
Based on 11 votes (3 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 3 )
  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    sounds like you're not ready for a relationship with him

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • dom180
    11 years ago

    Give it time to see if your feelings change :) If kissing is fine, hopefully you'll start to feel more comfortable doing other stuff after a while if the two of you are prepared to leave it longer :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Gelmurag
    11 years ago

    You friend zoned that guy. Why are you being abnormal and trying to date him now? 99% of girls that friend zone a guy never let him get past that. I also like to call it "Brother syndrome" or BS for short. Usually it goes like this...

    Me : "You know I'm in love with you right?"

    Her : "Yeah, but you are too much like a brother to me. It would be weird if we dated or did anything. I don't want to risk losing your friendship by something not working out if we go into a relationship."

    But in your case, you actually did let it go farther...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -2
    -2