Is it normal that a girl friend of many years suddenly terminates relations?

My gf of many years (a divorcee) has been talking to me on phone, telling about her sexual mismatch with husband (she claimed to be more potent than he) and asking for techniques to satisfy herself. Later she got divorce. Thereafter her expression took more wild and explicit turn. Sending me her nude pics became normal. In short, she had been discussing all aspects of my as well as her own sexual experiences. She even invited me many times to her residence, or any place I prefer, for fuc*ing her. Once she offered her house suggesting to bring another girl for 3some. I was either coward or careful not to accept any of her offers. She used to send me early morning and late night messages regularly (certainly in between too).Some months back she abruptly stopped calls, messages and all sort of contacts. I think she did it out of desperation and must have find other source of her sexual satisfaction. I have no regrets but often think: is it normal in human relations to terminate relations in such manner?

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40% Normal
Based on 10 votes (4 yes)
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  • Trashcompactor22

    You were used, man! Used!

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    • oncple

      I tend to agree.

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  • Ellenna

    She's probably found the real thing and moved on

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    • peterrabbyt69

      I bet you are the real thing Ellenna!!! Woohoo!

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      • Ellenna

        I'm the real thing in real non-work life, but fake in my work: callers to sex lines don't want real

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  • Gr00ve

    Please rewrite it with paragraphs.

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    • oncple

      Thanks for good advice. Here it is reproduced with paragraphs.

      My gf of many years (a divorcee) has been talking to me on phone, telling about her sexual mismatch with husband (she claimed to be more potent than he) and asking for techniques to satisfy herself. Later she got divorce. Thereafter her expression took more wild and explicit turn. Sending me her nude pics became normal.
      In short, she had been discussing all aspects of my as well as her own sexual experiences. She even invited me many times to her residence, or any place I prefer, for fuc*ing her. Once she offered her house suggesting to bring another girl for 3some. I was either coward or careful not to accept any of her offers.
      She used to send me early morning and late night messages regularly (certainly in between too).
      Some months back she abruptly stopped calls, messages and all sort of contacts. I think she did it out of desperation and must have find other source of her sexual satisfaction. I have no regrets but often think: is it normal in human relations to terminate relations in such manner?

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      • Gr00ve

        Thank you for rewriting it.

        I think people do this often. This lady was not attached to you romantically but wanted sexual favor. She just gave up when she was unable to convince you. (A threesome is a great lengths to go to seduce a guy).

        She just tried hard to gain favors from you and when she knew things are not working she gave up.

        She may feel embarrassed about it and she don't know how to overcome it and talk to you so I feel it's normal in these conditions.

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        • oncple

          So my thinking is correct that she has found someone to satisfy her. I am relieved. Thanks for comments.

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