Is it normal that a friend pretends like she doesn't about your hardships?

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I know this isn't RIGHT. But I want to know how many of you know someone like this (I'm only here for the percentages).

You know, the friend who pretends she didn't get your text message when you said you texted her about having a hard time about something. She's only there when you take her partying, shopping, and doing fun things. But when you're feeling down, she says she has to log off/she can't stay. She also only comes along to have dinner when you split the bill (but then she orders something really expensive or makes sure you gets more of it than you do).

This is NOT normal, but how common is it?

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38% Normal
Based on 37 votes (14 yes)
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  • chaosofkee9
    12 years ago

    I have a friend I live with like this, she tells me everything that winds her up, everything hardship related, and occasionally like to put not only me but our other house mates down when we are having a good time even if that's just sitting at home with a bottle of wine and we didn't invite her to join because she said she was going out somewhere. Man I'm wound up now, need to go chill.

    But yeah anyway back to the point, if I have had a hard time either at uni, money or parents home she doesn't want to know and occasionally stabs me in the back (metaphorically) when I find out i have a deadline due and cancel a night out to pass my degree

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  • ariannel
    12 years ago

    Fair-weather friends are common.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Dump her.

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  • BlueAlice
    12 years ago

    It's not normal for a decent one to do that....

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  • buttdoctor5400
    7 years ago

    maybe not but can any one here difine nomal it is what we make it to be not be cause some one tells us this that the other so you tell me

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    She sounds like a user. She just wants you for favours & to take her here & there. If she was a true friend she would listen to you & say something comforting. Find new friends who care about you.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Your 'friend' is a taker and will take up your time, your money - and anything else that she can use you for!

    I have a sister like this and I'm sad to say that although she's fake and smiles at everyone and thinks she's so charming, she hasn't got a single real friend in the world. She has used all of us over and over again, but we don't get invited to her parties etc.

    Do not let this person steal your time or energy one minute longer. She is not nice and is not offering a fair friendship - where there will always be give and take. At least you have wakened up to her personality, so you are ahead of her. If you continue to be her friend, get ready to be dumped when she finds someone new to use of a bf :o(

    Find a good friend instead.

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  • SingleandChildfree
    12 years ago

    Life is too short to have crap like this in your life. Please dump 'em.

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