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Okay so I am in a long term relationship and my co worker is too.
We get along really well and sometimes I feel like we're flirting a bit.
I would never cheat and I'm 99% sure he wouldn't either.
I just am curious to know if people think that this is bad or whether everyone does it..
You are playing with fire and a lot more people than the 2 of you are going to get burned if you don't get some water on it.
Time to grow up and pretend you are an adult, with adult responsibilities.
Play time with others has passed and if you got married before you'd sown your wild oats, oh well, that's a mistake you'll have to live with until you get a divorce.
There are some people in this world who flirt without realizing they are doing it. The others couldn't flirt if there life depended on it. So, just think, are you trying deep down to draw attention to yourself? Maybe your boyfriend takes you for granted and you miss what it feels like to be desired. Why don't you try some new things to spice up the relationship? Or if it is really bothering you, consider talking to the coworker, your boyfriend, or try going to couples' therapy.
depends on how far you go with it. flirting for the sake of it, is often done out of boredom or as a distraction from stressful situations at work - doesn't have to mean anything really. and yes, just about everyone i know flirts with their coworkers to SOME degree (and most of them HAVEN'T slept with each other). it's just a matter of the intent (or lack thereof) behind the flirting.
I don't see a problem in flirting, to my mind it can actually prevent cheating rather than facilitate it. But I see that I am in a minority here.
I'm in the same situation except my coworker and I have actually messed around....stop now because you never know what can happen that you'll regret like me