Is it normal that a can't be bothered with the feminist movement

You'd hate Tumblr then.

I am not a feminist because majority are unreasonable and dont use much logic.

But there are still some really sexist guys and girls. And sexist ideals un the us...I can say there are other countries that need it more...where weman are really oppressed.
I meen I want to throw my daughter a spiderman bday party and you know what I was met with...looks of disgust... how dare I super hero's are for boys! *shakes head* this kind of thing tries to tell children what they should and should not like...and I find myself fighting for my daughter to like "boy things".

Not in ever civilization did people fit into all weman are gathers all men are hunters roll. But mist likely happened not becs use hunter is a dominate roll men should take. ..but because generally men are stronger.
lionesses do most of the hunting. And actually can and have defended themselves against invading males to protect their cubs. The females let the males eat first and have their fill as long as they protect the rest of the pride from invading males. This works...if they evolved on the lvl of humans this would no longer be needed....and both or ether sex could want equal rights if they didnt have it.

We still need equal rights for both men and women....because there are still sexist things that happen for both sexes

While I would never have called myself feminist (being male it seemed a bit odd to identify that way) I grew up in a very left-leaning "politically correct" household. I viewed feminists and anyone else claiming to fight for the oppressed as the "good guys". Nowadays I'm not so sure. I'm still in favor of equal rights of course, but I've seen too many examples where these movements show unhealthy aspects. Too much groupthink, too much us-vs-them politics, overreaction to small wrongs, etc.

Women are being sexually harassed and abused. I consider it a big problem also. Maybe it's just because I am a girl, but um yeah I disagree.

I can see your point of view but you have to remember that girls are still harassed for being sexual. If men have sex they are praised but if a woman does she's a slut. Guys can walk around shirtless and if a woman's bra strap is showing she dresses "inappropriately." Woman are taught how not to get raped instead of teaching men NOT TO RAPE WOMAN. If a little boy is rough or does something inappropriate he's "just being a boy" If a girl does the same she needs to "learn be a lady" and is usually disciplined. Media focuses on woman's appearance more than mens. Girls need to be perfect in every way, have big boobs or be thin and wear makeup to get a guys attention. Some places in the U.S. still pay woman less than men for the same job. And as far as the animal species go i get where you're coming from but most people see humans as a more evolved species and not as animals. Also there are still tribes practicing hunting and gathering. And although the woman are usually the gatherer's, they still hunt with bow and arrows to catch their meals birds, fish etc. The reason that woman were the gatherer's is because they were needed for the children and to breast feed young babys. men who hunt could be injured or dead from the animal they hunt, they think of the woman as sacred child barrier because with out them their family couldn't have children and reproduce.

Not all men treat woman unfairly but there's a lot who do. And not ALL men are physically stronger than woman you have to remember that.

yeah your right rape is a big issue, but a sad truth. there are always going to be nasty people out there. i had to deal with it before myself 6 years ago, and the people that i went to for support not once told me it was my fault and i was encouraged to take him to court. i have full confidence that if i did, no one would have blamed it on the fact that i was wearing a short skirt that night, thye would have supported me. (i didn't take it to court btw cos i didnt wanna tell my family)

but i didn't make a big deal out of it then and i think it was his fault but also I was out and about at 1am, drunk with my friend on the beach at the age of 16 - hardly the safest thing to do! and there are nasty people out there who are guna act out their desires cos they just don't give a fuck about other peoples feelings.

i think that men are made to feel by the media as if they should look a certain way too, and they drink unhealthy protein shakes and stuff to bulk up. my boyfriend is naturally pretty thin, and has always got a lot of stick about it (but he doesn't really give a fuck haha). women can be just as picky in their idea of a perfect body of a man, wanting him to be tall and bulky - but not too bulky - with a nice tan, as an example. which for a lot of blokes is unacheivable. it's their 'i have better things to do with my time than pluck my eyebrows' attitude that makes it acceptable for them to not look perfect, and girls should be the same way. i know that I have better things to do with my time than pluck my eyebrows thats for sure! (ha, although i seem to be spending my day writing out this thing on IIN - is that normal?!)

in some ways I quite like being thought of as if i can't do things as well as guys because i'm a girl - it makes it easier to prove people wrong. for example, when i started snowboarding, the guys i was with, who have been doing it for years, thought i was going to suck. and of course I did at first cos i was a beginner. but i tried really hard to push myself, and could keep up with them after the first week. they were really impressed and said 'your shred like a man' (which i suppose is pretty sexist!), but now when they teach me tricks and stuff they get so excited when i land them. if i was a boy and got to my standard, they probably wouldn't be so impressed...

now im ready to get better and better until im better than them and i can't wait!

being thought as if your guna suck, makes it fun to be suprisingly good. its like, in your face motherfucker!

and a spiderman birthday party sounds wicked! i say do it anyway and stop caring what people think :)

ps. pixie & reminscent - thanks for the detail about the lionesses and the hunter/gatherer ideas - very inciteful i didn't know that