Iin, that a 16 years old girl is together with a 22 years old man?

so my best friend is in love with a 22 years old man. She is 16! I don't know if this is good but he loves her too ..so much! is it normal?

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40% Normal
Based on 93 votes (37 yes)
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  • shuggy-chan

    love is love, as long as they dont get caught doing the hanky panky till shes legal.

    im 22, and i knw alot of jail bait, that could make me think twice. but it makes me feel a lil creep thou

    xD

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  • RixStix69

    Im sure the guy is a 22 year old Boy. They are probibley the same age mentaly. Not to worry!

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  • FruedianSlip

    Not normal. At that phase of life, 16-17, 17-18, 18-19 etc, all big years. You develop so much at that time and most people aren't the same person they were at 16 when they are 22. He is clearly a loser that can't relate to his peers so he's seeking out a girl that has nothing to compare him to and doesn't know better.

    She should ask herself if she'd date a 16 yr old when she's 22.

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  • flexte

    That is normal it isn't a big age gap at all. Just no sexual contact until she is of age.

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  • MissClaire

    They might be at the same stange mentally (which is arguable of course) but not sexually. THis happened to a few girls when I was in high school but it never lasted or they got pregnant. It just makes me question the motive of the male,

    Why a 16 year old and not someone closer to his age? That is the question.

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  • hunnybird

    No that is not normal.. It's a six year diff.. Let's say she was 18 then it would be normal... At sixteen tho.. A 22 year old could manipulate that mind way to easy.. This happened to a sibling of mine.. In the end he kidnapped her tattooed her entire body, rapped her, beat her, ect.. Thank god she survived.. Now he is on bond and darting yet another 16 yer old... So now it's not normal

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    • esiidesu

      wow i'm sorry but dont worry he isnt a stranger and wont do that.. I'm not that silly~ i know him for 2 years now and he didnt do anything at all yet

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  • Avant-Garde

    It would depend on the legal age of your country.

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    No it is a paedophile. So that is not normal. Also there is no reason a 20 year old should be messing around with children. For any reason. Get her away from him.

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  • sissycakes

    I think I heard of this before. This same scenario except it resulted in some not so good stuff.

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  • x1frosty16

    My friend got with her boyfriend when she was 15 and he was 23. Now he is 27 and she is 20. She wants to get her life together and settle down. Shes going to colledge, taking care of her grandmaw and has a job and she is ready to end the relationship. He has no job, refuses to work, lives with his parents, has made her pay for everything even bail him out of jail, goes to the bars all the time, and is in a band thinking hes going to make it big ha ha Gotta love the irony He will never grow up and she already has. shes sick and tired of being with a child lol not saying every relationship with a big age gap is like this. just thought i would humor you

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  • shes ove rthe limit so she can get in the 16 or over is the age lmit

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  • KatieLiz

    Not normal, there's a lot of difference between 16 and 22. Which you can only really grasp the scope of once you turn 22

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    • esiidesu

      i dont know ..normal or not! but he is a honest man and he won't do anything to her until she is 18 so i guess no need to worry if they love each other! :]

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  • CinnamonToast

    Like the above said, 'love is love'. As far as 'hanky-panky' goes, check the laws of your state; 16 is the federal minimum. Individual states set their own limits though; many leave it at the federal limit of 16, such as Alaska and Louisiana. Some set it at 17, a happy medium; Texas is a good example. Others, such as California and Tennessee, set it at 18. So, depending on where you are, they may already be perfectly good to go. Or not. Check before you say anything. :)

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Very normal. The age gap is very small too.

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