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There is a girl at my school who sits wherever I sit, goes wherever I go and sometimes go out of her way to touch me? I've tried to give her the hint that I'm not interested but it's not stopping her. What should I do?
I'd think honesty would be the kindest thing. A simple confrontation, gently letting her know you are not interested. Perhaps you might want to wear a sports cup though, in case she goes all Lorena Bobbitt on you.
She might have Asperger's and probably doesn't realize what she's doing is inappropriate. She more than likely has a crush on you and doesn't know how to go about it the right way. She may want to ask you out but is afraid to, so she follows you around and stares at you because communication especially with someone she has feelings for is very difficult for her. I wouldn't yell at her or anything. I assure you, that's not going to make her go away. I'll probably make her feel bad, but not go away. More than likely, her obsession over you will move on to another guy but, in the mean time, I would suggest that you try to let her down gently. A hint may not work so well, and I think it's okay to be a little more assertive and just be upfront with her. Chances are, although she has an obsession with you (which, to her, she probably just a crush) she may accept just being friends with you. I suggest talking to her and maybe getting to know her more. She may not be so bad of a person. I understand that this can be frustrating and very annoying, but it's not something I would really worry about. I know it's hard, but just try to spare her feelings. If she has Asperger's (or any other mental disorder that effects social interaction) it could really effect her in the long run if you go about this the wrong way.
Stop giving hints and just give it to her straight.
That's the best thing you can do for yourself. For her on the other hand, it may hurt, but she will get over it, provided she's not a crazy, obsessed stalker. If she's one of those you may have to get a restraining order or worse, relocate and change your name etc,. I know it sounds extreme and a little crazy to say such a thing, but many people have lost their lives or partners because they thought it was just a harmless crush. Sometimes it's more than that.
Be honest, but don't be harsh.
Honestly, I have no idea. I went through the exact same through college with a female classmate and I tried to distance myself but she kept folowing me, joined different social groups because she would inject herself in to them whenever I was in a new one, and so on. Luckily I moved so...
She sounds like a stalker, the little, stupid bitch. I had a stalker in college so I fucking hate that bullshit!