Is it normal should freeloading adult children have any rights

You sound like a bitch

She was is daughter before you were ever his wife She should always come first in his eyes, because she's his child for God's sake. If you don't like it then leave, evil step-mother!

I am sorry to say but you are truly mean-spirited

She helped you financially when she could and this is how you repay her, to treat her like piece of garbage in her time of need? You're not normal and it's sick to be upset about your husband's birthday gifts to his daughter. You're not in competition with her daughter. She's looking for a job. Leave her be and calm down or maybe you should find a new home?

OH MY GOD! you are the worst kind of family member. Don't you realize this "freeloader" is your family! it is not the time for you to bring up petty quarrels with her from your past or even the present because she has nobody else to turn to. She isn't some lazy roach who's been sitting around all day in your house who never worked a day in her life. She is your own flesh and blood (or at least you should see it that way)and you need to be prepared to make things work regardless of the circumstances because im sure as hell that she would do the same for you. Understand the it is often the most successful people who build or come from strong families. But if you want to create a network of dysfunction for you family like the rest of trailer trash america, sure go ahead and evict her. its a slippery slope, and you will eventually regret having her leave when your poor domestic decisions either destroy your family or drive them all away. you need to get a hand of things and realize what you are saying, your step daughter sounds like she has her act together and is trying to pick herself up. don't kick her down. I recommend you leave your husband, you sound very selfish and bitchy, possibly unattractive as well do your incredible jealousy.

Life is tough, and you know this since she's your step daughter. Give her a hug or something.

Wow, you sound like an old nasty cunt. At least she's trying to find a job, you can't fucking expect her to get a job in one day, it's actually quite hard to find one these days.

Lay off her ya old hag, she hasn't done anything wrong. I think you're the one causing the problems.

YOUR house etc? Isn't it your husband's home too? Staying with you for two weeks while she's looking for another job is hardly freeloading.

You sound intolerant, destructive and SELF destructive, because of course her father will take her side. If you want to destroy your marriage you're going the right way about it

Methinks that the Daughter and the op are the same age and that is a huge part of the problem.

Its pretty obvious here that the old wife here is jealous of a younger more attractive body/woman in the house living with her and her man

I have a sneaky suspicion you wrote this is a troll post. If my assumption is right blink three times. Because it's a pretty brilliant troll post

If you hate having her around, WHY WOULD YOU GROUND HER? Wouldn't that just keep her around MORE?
Give her the fucking car and a bunch of bread and tell her to get lost! If your husband doesn't like that, then tell him to get lost, too. Then you'll have YOUR house all to yourself.

If she had been actually freeloading, I'd agree. But you either don't know what that means or are making shit up for attention.

Sigh, stepmothers can me mean bitches

Si odias tenerla cerca , ¿por qué le apretó ? ¿No sería que sólo mantener a su alrededor MÁS?
Dale el maldito auto y un montón de pan y dile que se pierden ! Si su marido no le gusta eso, entonces dile a perderse , también. Entonces tendrás tu casa para ti solo .

exactamente. .