Is it normal she told me we had a connection but now doesn't talk to me?

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Yes it was a long time ago (2 years or more). She told me this, that she loved me heaps and that she was so happy to have me back in her life blah, blah, blah. I'm not sure if she meant it in a friendly manner, we were close girl friends and she had a bf. We had a rocky friendship too. I got in touch with her about 1 week ago as she's been on my mind constantly! She asked who I was as she had lost all her contacts. I told her and she explained she had been waiting to get a txt from me for ages. I gave her the famous line she used to give me "yea, lifes been hectic lately" We exchanged a couple txts and she spoke about her bf. There was nothing to reply to because she hasn't asked a question. I hate him as well so didn't want to talk about him. Thing is, she never asked how I am! Or what's new in life after not talking for about 6 months, I would think she would want to talk! She didn't! Am I missing something- Does she just not care anymore?
I've always found it hard to not care about her, I probably always will love her even though she probably doesn't care about me

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  • deepdankstickygoo
    8 years ago

    She sounds like a selfish kind of "friend." Like Rose said you guys have grown apart.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Sounds like ya'll have grown apart and that she's preoccupied with herself and her personal issues. I'm sure what you're going through now is painful, but it may well be for the best as perhaps this friendship is a bit of a one way street. That's all just my own opinion of course.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Youre right! It certainly was mostly one way :/
      Why does someone say meaningful things and not really mean it? If she meant it- she would have made an effort..?

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      • BlackyHancock
        8 years ago

        I learned a long time ago to not listen so much to what people say they are 'gonna do' or write about what they're 'gonna do' - but what they actually do.

        Sorts out them 'gonnas' real quick.

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        • RoseIsabella
          8 years ago

          I've gotta remember that myself.
          ;-)

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Yes I like that quote

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        She's probably so self obsessed that she's not aware of how selfish and one sided her behavior is, and has been. People like that want others to be friends to them, but aren't willing to be there as friends for other people.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Aww yeah, its really disheartening

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          • RoseIsabella
            8 years ago

            It happens.

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