Is it normal she not call or text

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married woman of three goes out and gets drunk and not text or call all night till the morning ? Does she need to explain ? I need any advise how to deal with her . I want to keep the family together . I this normal for married women ? I was told the mark was a scratch and would think it was a hickie . also thought I would be mad and not believe her . She cant remember what she did or how it happen.

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  • Steve2!
    8 years ago

    Maybe she doesn't think that you're literate enough to respond.

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  • Bake34
    8 years ago

    I haven't heard the other side but it sounds like your wife cheated on you. It's up to you how you proceed.

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    • mikenolan
      8 years ago

      Kill her.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    The husband (or wife) always knows, even if he (or she) doesn't want to believe it. What does your intuition say?
    What should you do? I guess it really depends on whether you still trust her. If you do and will never use this incident against her in a fight, then if she wants to keep her family together too, you might be OK.
    However, if the trust is gone and you will always wonder where she is and what she's doing when she's not with you, the marriage is doomed. It might take a few years, but it will die and the death will get uglier and uglier as time passes. A quick, clean and honest break up would also be best for the kids, rather than a drawn out anger fest.
    You are sitting in an unenviable position, and unfortunately you have a difficult choice to make pretty soon. Good luck.

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  • Myghoul2099
    8 years ago

    she's obviously not too in love with you. just break up with her without getting emotional.

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  • bubblyblonde1999
    8 years ago

    NO it's not normal. My mother would do that it caused her and my stepdad to get a divorce. In my mother's case, she had sex with every one of her guy friends who stopped by to say 'hi'. I'm not saying this your case, but you do deserve an explanation.

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  • ridgedfat
    8 years ago

    She's home now mate im not going to lie something not rite there you need to make the choice she deserves one chance at least. Kick her to the curb if it happens again

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
    8 years ago

    If you want to keep the family together start acting like it. You don't have to 'deal with her' you need to understand what is going on and go from there. Invite her to a neutral place ie not in the house and request an open, calm and honest dialogue - get to the truth. Set your ego aside and ask her to do the same. You deserve the truth. She needs to stop lying about not remembering. Good luck with it! You can't design a solution when you don't yet understand the problem you're dealing with.

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  • KissmyIrishass
    8 years ago

    How does she know it's a scratch but not what happened all night! Sounds fishy to me!

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