Is it normal she made me so wet or was it just the weed

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When I was 16 I was at a mates place and we were smoking pot.

I had to go to the toilet and I noticed how wet I was down there which is not common for me .

Was I subconsciously turned on ?

I did have an attraction to her but I didn't realised it at that point.

We were close as well like sometimes I'd lightly tickle her legs and we'd cuddle when we slept together.

There were moments when I knew her that I found her so dam hot and it felt so nice when she'd lay her legs on me or I was sitting close to her it'd make me nervous

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    I don't have an opinion, just would like to say I thought it was cute.
    Young love... oh the memories!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      I miss those memories :/

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    Some girls (and some women who should know better) like to laugh at how guys (young guys, in particular) get erections at the drop of a hat. The thing is, you have no more control over your vaginal lubrication than a guy has over his erection. The two are actually a little similar, because vaginal lubrication occurs when there's increased blood-flow to the walls of the vagina.

    You say you came to realise that you thought the other girl was hot. Sexuality researchers have found that vaginal lubrication occurs when the bit of your brain that you inherited from our primitive animal ancestors says, “Hey! There’s something sorta sexual going on here. We better get ready for sex!”

    There is a difference between "sexually relevant" stimuli and "sexually appealing" stimuli. Vaginal lubrication often occurs when the woman is presented with (or thinks about) something that's sexually relevant, regardless of how sexually appealing the image, situation, or thought is. In the situation you describe, I’d guess that it’s possible the pot played a role in relaxing your inhibitions, and allowing you, at some level, to see the other girl as “sexually relevant”.

    Sexuality researchers have also found that, for women, vaginal lubrication and what the woman _thinks_ she finds arousing only match up about 10% of the time. So, in nine cases out of ten, the vagina is either lubricating when the woman is in a situation she doesn’t find sexually appealing at all (rape being the most extreme example), or the vagina does not lubricate when the woman is actually very sexually aroused.

    Researchers call this nonconcordance, and it can be very confusing to women and their partners.

    What it comes down to, really, is that while we all like to think we’re smart, rational humans, when it comes to sex, things can get weird. Sex is an ancient drive, and the parts of our brains controlling our sexual responses are primitive and not really under our conscious control. How we deal with our arousal is, of course, something we do have control over.

    Many women find their physical sexual responses confusing and troubling. If you want to understand yourself better, I suggest you consider reading "Come as You Are" by Emily Nagoski. It's a very positive book, and goes into nonconcordance in some detail, as well as many other areas of female sexuality which are well-established by research, but not generally known.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Thankyou for the elaborate response very interesting.

      Sounds like you've done plenty study on the topic lol

      So basically I conclude that the vagina gets aroused at random for the most part so it's hard to differ between when one is actually aroused and when one is not

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      • Boojum
        5 years ago

        You'll know when something turns you on because you'll feel turned on!

        The bottom line is that you shouldn't assume that just because you're wet, that must mean you're aroused. Ideally, both happen together, but that doesn't always happen.

        The classic experiment which proves nonconcordance is when researchers showed women videos of Bonobo chimpanzees mating (amongst many other clips). The women said - as you would expect - that they didn't find the chimp sex clip sexually arousing, but the instrument in their vagina showed that they were lubricating. Those women didn't have some subconscious urge to join in the Bonobo orgy, but the animal bit of their brains shouted, "Sexually relevant!", and so they lubricated.

        If some guy you know starts talking about his rape fantasies in detail, you might find that you get wet even though what he says and the guy himself makes you want to puke. The wetness wouldn't mean you subconsciously wanted to play the role of the victim or even that you have some secret desire to be raped for real, it's just the result of you hearing something sexually relevant. If, when listening to his fantasies, you started _thinking_, "Wow! This is really weird and sick, but that's actually pretty hot!" then you could honestly say that (for some reason you should probably think about later) the scenario he was talking about aroused you.

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        • McBean
          5 years ago

          In other words, Booj is saying that you'll be riding a double dong in no time.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          That makes perfect sense now!! Thanks for explaining this and actually now I don't freak out as much because there have been times where I have watched a movie then their maybe a rape scene come on and if it's not too aggressive I feel something weird down there but I tell myself it must be because it's sexual and in reality I'd beat the shit out of someone if I saw that happening.

          So I used to feel so worried I'd get tingles down there when I saw sexual stuff that was just disgusting or wrong.

          Now I fully understand and won't freak out as much

          Thank u !:)

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  • HypnoDom
    5 years ago

    Much of your post clearly makes the case that yes, you were attracted to her. There's certainly nothing wrong with that!

    Are you concerned about being attracted to a close friend? Well, why wouldn't it be natural? You spend a lot of time together, you trust each other, you have compatible personalities... it's no wonder you'd find yourself growing closer to her.

    As for your comments on finding yourself turned on by sexually graphic scenarios, that is also very common. There are actually studies on this:
    https://www.vice.com/en_nz/article/bm9w7v/why-are-so-many-women-searching-for-ultra-violent-porn
    Now let me be clear. That does not mean that rape or violence against women is RIGHT. That does not mean that women are "asking for it." Your fantasies are your fantasies. Can you explain why you enjoy one type of cuisine or music but not another? You simply have your own preferences, and people should respect that. Whether you love the idea of such things happening to you, or want to roleplay it but would never want to experience it for real, or get turned on watching it or reading about it but would never want to even roleplay it--that is absolutely your choice. I think we all have kinks like that, where it can be fun to look at the porn, but it wouldn't actually be enjoyable in real life.

    Explore your sexual desires. Learn more about what you do and don't enjoy. There is no shame in exploring the beautiful palette of your undiscovered desires.

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  • Dave917
    5 years ago

    Pics or it didn't happen.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      See, you are an immoral sex freak and you have just proved it. I saw a post saying that majority of men cheat and are pigs.Op hit that nail on the head. Shame on you

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Get lost

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