Is it normal she dosnt want to chat on the phone and why?

"Is she a materialistic bitch like so many of them are?"

It seems you've already got your hate cape on for women, even going so far as to lump us all into one greedy group. As a woman whose priorities vary wildly from your presumption, I can't help but think how frustrating it must be for all of the "He-Man Women Hater Club" members who detest the very thing they desire most. I'm sorry our culture has shaped you thus when we all have the capacity for so much better.

Okay I'll just sum up in hope I have answered most questions you have put forward which by the way are all valid questions. Firstly, we are the same age yes being 24, we have had a variety of interesting conversations ranging from our work life, to love life and all the in between such as family, friends/people in general,anxiety, hobbies, animals etc. We are in totally different countries through which is unfortunate. She is camera shy so she has said and a bit socially anxious though she has said she would have more confidence over the phone. I could simply ring her on Facebook messenger so I dont require a phone number. I have heard her voice through a small recording where she asked how I am and she sounds very American but definitely my age as seen lots of pics and her voice sounds young too. Shes down to earth and i definitely dont feel the materalistic vibe at all, in fact I feel shes somewhat the opposite as the way she dresses is more practical rather than fashionable. She got out of a 5 year relationship wih a woman about 9 months ago and I have seen pics of her ex and them two together. We both are questioning our sexuality and have discussed this. We think we could be asexual or demi sexual so we dont sex talk either it was more cutesy way of talking.

Basically it is about nature. A woman can get laid whenever but most males have to work at it to some degree. I think that is because ultimately it is the woman who bears the burden of having kids. So, they HAVE to be selective.

With dating sites, people can and do meet that way, get laid, etc. BUT - be prepared to deal with a lot of bullshit. Like you are talking to someone who seems genuine, interested, easy on the eyes, but then she drops a bomb like one of these -

- I am a single mom of a two year old son.
- My husband and I are getting a divorce and I still live with him.
- I suffer from (some weird ailment) so it is hard for me to get off the couch except to cash my disability checks.
- I cannot go out in public because I suffer anxiety to the point of having seizures if I am around people more than three minutes.

Then there are the ones who are REAL charming and interesting at first but soon you find out they are nothing but talk. They talked like a kinkster but is prudish as a nun.

Sad thing is - for men and women, the above experiences seem pretty normal.