Is it normal she does not understand when she makes herself look like a whore?

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I have a friend who acts like a whore. However she does not understand what this looks like. Some things just appear very bad and she does not understand it.

Examples: She is dating a guy, but will go sit in another guys lap who is not her BF and say, You got a cute smile, do you think I am sexy?

Example:Knowingly flirting with someone who is already taken, and when questioned about it says "Well if they let me flirt with them its totally okay, long as we dont have sex its okay"

Example:Well if I use the same terms for everyone including my BF I dont see how it loses its value

I mean this is common sense what this stuff looks like. Yet she does not understand it. Than they get mad when people think they are a bad person. Since they have very slutty inconsiderate behavior. How do you explain to a person like this something so simple?

She would be standing in the middle of the woods, at night, with a dirty shovel and blood on her hands. Than wonder why the cops are questioning her. Like "Why does it matter I am in the woods, digging a hole, and have blood on my hands. Leave me alone assholes"! I guess she just has 0 deductive reasoning skills. How do you explain this to someone?

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  • Cjmissy
    8 years ago

    I'd say its a character issue, shes probably still maturing and doesn't understand how to handle things quite yet. If I were you and wanted to tell me friend about it I'd ask her to spend the night then talk, get comfortable, then when the time is right discuss the behavor. But I would be careful sometimes immature people tend to get offended by stuff and she could start drama between you two.Your second option is to just let her figure it out on her own, witch she will eventually.

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  • Avant-Garde
    8 years ago

    I don't know quite what to say. How old is she? I feel like she's absorbing the "sex sells" message in the media, thinking that it will somehow make her cool. She needs a respectable person in her life, who can act as a role model and prove to her that she shouldn't have to act like a slut. I'm thinking that perhaps reading matterial or videos on why being a slut is so looked down upon may help to further put things into perspective for her. Good luck.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Shes 18 years old. She does not think she is being a slut. She says this behavior is acceptable and normal. She said basically that "She do what she wants and she dont care what anyone thinks, since actions do not define her". When she does stupid shit and people call on her she assumes they are bullying her. I have a friend who is older than me who refereed to her in this manner "Shes just a child". I am 21 and my older friend is 30. She not adult like the two of us he said. I was rather ignorant at 18 about how to sign up for a bank and fill out taxes but I had better social skills(and I am very awkward).

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    I've known a few females like this. I try not to judge them too harshly just because they have different flaws than me, but if they're dead wrong I might tell them about it. After that, it's their decision how they want to behave. If I feel like I can't trust them due to their behavior I let them go.

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  • powerhouse
    8 years ago

    How old is this girl? Not a good thing teasing guys. She's gonna mess with the wrong person one day and he will hurt her badly. I had a girl like your friend. She was lucky I walked away. I heard a month later someone had beaten raped and beat her some more. The sad part is not only didn't people feel badly for her the poor guy's life became a living hell all because of a Fucking Whore!!

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    • ReginaFalange
      8 years ago

      You are totally confused.
      We all agree that this girl might be acting not quite normally, but that IS NOT a reason for raping ANYONE.
      You are saying she was lucky you didn't rape her? So she had it coming? Is that your logic? Please think before you speak.

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