Is it normal she acted differently to telling me we shared a connection?

Well I'll try cut this shortish-
I was close with someone long time ago, she confided in me, told me she loves me, is super happy I'm back in her life and explained we had a connection years ago. I'm a girl but I was secretly hoping she had romantic feelings there. I text her just recently telling her that I didn't feel she meant everything she said that day as she never really tried in the friendship. Yes she text a little bit, but I was the one going to see her, and texting most times. She explained how she's just not the sort to keep in regular contact. I told her I hoped I wasn't just another acquaintance she txts every now and then and I hoped it was different & that I wished I had meaning to her. She said she was guttered that I would even think this. A lot was said but She goes on explaining how she had a connection like she does with me and two other friends (that I know)! I was guttered that she used the same word connection and having it with other friends. I was pretty sure our connection was different & she loved me :/ Our connection was on the beach years ago, and I know it sounds lame but we had a moment of looking into each others eyes. Did I misinterpret her feelings for me ? Did she just ever only see me as a friend or is she denying something :/

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56% Normal
Based on 9 votes (5 yes)
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Comments ( 5 )
  • Steve2.

    Heheheheheheheh! Isn't that just SO interesting?

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    • Um yeah, anything helpful to add ?

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      • Steve2.

        Yes. Use paragraphs.

        But in regard to your problem, stop obsessing over it and talk it over with her. Ask her if she considers you a friend or a possible sexual interest.

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  • 12sdratereathi

    ask her on a romantic date if you want a sex buddy then you will need to think about it harder and find out if she just wants a pure sexual relationship.
    Then ask her if she wants to be friends with benefits.

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  • jr__

    Its just guesswork unless you ask her.

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