Is it normal scared having sex in first serious relationship?

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I have been with a few girls everytime it was just for sex and fooling around, it never lasted more than a few months either I get bored and break it off or things faded away by itself. Well now I am in a relationship with this girl for few months and its serious. I love her and she is the first I see a future with but I get insecure and scared at the thought of having sex with her and have been even avoiding it. It makes no sense

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago

    talk to her about it, if you want this t be a serious ltr then you need to communicate.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Maybe your feelings for her are getting in the way and you are insecure about how you will perform. Relax and take it slowly.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    i had this issue about not trusting a girl enough to give her my orgasm. so i always had sex with them and said its going to take a few sessions to get comfortable enough to climax with them. they all understand because many have the same issue. it was usually with the ones i cared the most about, its ok to drill a woman and not cum they will understand. just talk it out with them.

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